Britney’s sons Jayden and Sean hope for reconciliation despite the “emotional trauma we have been through“

[MikeHunt]

He says that he knows the Spears family and they can’t be what Britney says in her posts because they’re always nice to HIM, so they CAN’T be bad. WTF? I know he’s a kid, but don’t give this kid a platform to talk about crap he doesn’t know. That’s like someone saying, “Harvey Weinstein is a nice man, that never tried to hit on me, so he can’t be a rap***”! And he basically admits that he not going to her wedding was retaliation because she didn’t invite the other Spears. Like the wedding was HER special day, not yours Jayden! 
 

I’m left feeling disgusted and truly sad for Britney after reading this. It’s like grown ups gave Jayden a script of topics to discuss and use keywords, “mental health”, “trauma”. He never once tried to put himself in his mothers shoes and see why she feels the way she feels. It hasn’t even been a year since the CON ended and he wants Britney to basically get over it and let the family back in her life. 
 

I feel like the boys are playing a game they will probably lose. They’re using the fact that they’re her children as leverage to make her act the way THEY see fit. Until she makes up with Team Con, THEY won’t see her. She will probably have kids with Sam, dive into motherhood there and let the boys keep their distance. Not that Britney will be vindictive to ice her boys out but she’s gotten a second chance at freedom and I doubt she’s ever going to let anyone tell her who she can or can’t be and if they don’t like it, she loves them but they can be salty elsewhere. 
 

 

[Tar_isa]

How can nobody in that family see the damage this is gonna cause those children FFS. I can't f-ing belive it.

The other day in the youtube audio she said how they were playing the game of ball and twist and expected her to come running back to them because she was scared. But her strength grew because she didn't reach out to her dad. Well, I think they now are upping their game and trying to make her "come running back" again, but this time using their children as bait, just like they did when they were babies. 

One thing I'm glad of, is Britney holding her ground and not giving in to this emotional blackmail. What gives me hope, for her, is the detachment from the children has been going on for a long time, so as sad as it is, I hope she keeps getting stronger for not reaching out to those who have had a grip on her.

[GlitterRain]

[Tar_isa]

7 minutes ago, Turts07 said:

who is teaching this boy this kind of ableism! 

Now I'm sad thinking how every single person around them, for their whole lives, lived and breathed the worst kind of ableism and they lived and breathed it too.

[ObsessedBritFan1]

Nope, not going to read it.

[Biozin]

It's just so sad the way this boy talks about his own trauma, devaluing what his mother has been through. Her trauma is way bigger, I'm sure. There's a clear lack of empathy, which is disgusting. 

I'm sure there were bad moments in their relationship with their mom, but the fact that they are unable to admit what she has been through, what she had to endure and the consequences it carries for her, it's unbelivable. It's like they're saying they have been through worse, I don't get it.

They should have more empathy. I hope they realise that one day.

[Kaitlyn Johnson]

5 minutes ago, fays1 said:

So her own kids cut her off completely because Britney doesnt want to talk to her own dad? I have never heard a kid cutting their mom off because of that reason!

One of their lady friends had posted that they are afraid to be around Britney bc she’s off her meds and are scared to be around her. She walks around the house naked, talking to herself in and out of her British accent and scares them. I posted about this months ago and was trolled. The lack of empathy from her own kids is just sad. If you’re concerned for her well being, you don’t address it on television. 

[alleyesonme393]

So that’s it. Every single person in her life down to her own kids blame HER for EVERYONE else’s abuse. All the bull**** she endured?! I can not. I’m so sorry Britney. You never deserved any of this. 
 

 

[blackingouthenegativity]

The boys FIRST abusers are the media that stalked them during their infant years as their mother desperately tried to escape her abusive family/deadbeat husband the first time.

Yet here they are talking to the same trash tabloid media of all people thinking this is going to help their Mom

[Z-dawg]

OMG I don’t think I can cope with some of the thick kuntz. Typical Daily Fail readers… 

 

At least some people with some decency downvoting them 

[pieceofphil]

There it is, the trail of  promise for love that Britney is supposed to follow to be kept in the rugs of the spears family again.

Despicable through and through from a network to air an interview with a minor in a state where he himself says needs to heal and yet hasn't fully understood what the ordeal of the conservatorship has cost him and Britney.

It will be really tough watching him saying this smug as he is, without knowing what he does to her with these words. My heart would break as a mother, my soul would burst knowing my own flesh and blood doesn't understand my grieve and what the spears clan has done to me.

There's hope for reconcilation but only when enough evidence has proven in court that Britney is having a point with her accusations against the family. I mean they must've heard about the surveillance, about the stay in the facility, about not being allowed to go anywhere... 

 

[Watch Me Work It]

11 minutes ago, Turts07 said:

These are the saddest parts - like you can’t be with your mother until her mental health issues are resolved - a lot of mental health issues can be life long struggles , who is teaching this boy this kind of ableism!

This! She will be forever traumatized by the cship and they don't seem to understand or care about that.

[ICouldntThinkOfOne]

My heart breaks. Not for Britney, but for the children, because they're not at the age of recognising that adults and family don't necessarily have their best interest at heart. The people they see in a good light hurt their mother, but their entire  existence has been in a conservatorship, the only thing they know is the relationships formed in the conservatorship. It breaks my heart because even in their language, they don't want to offend but they're very naive to what happened, I mean, they didn't go to their mothers wedding because she didn't invite people she views as abusers, and view it that Britney put them in a tough position. 

 

Everything shared comes back to Britney was abused by her family in the conservatorship. Her trauma, her anxiety, her anger: its all justified.

 

It's been said time and time again, the custody battle and conservatorship weaponised her children against her for almost 15 years.  This is the result of it. Both Britney and her boys are both victims of this, and the fault is anyone who profited from it.

As much as people want to name call them, please don't. Britney wouldn't want that, but it's not fair. Put it in perspective, both of her boys are still younger than Britney was when she debuted Baby One More Time.

Kevin should be ashamed of himself for doing this and permitting this, however. I hope Rosengart clamps down on him. If Kevin has breached any aspect of his custody agreement, and the children are being allowed say they don't have a relationship with their mother, why is she paying extortionate amounts of child support for a man who hasn't worked a substantial job in decades?

[Dallasguy27]

Sounds like her family is still weaponizing her kids against her. Trying to use them to weasel their way back into their lives (they won’t see her unless all the family can see her). I’m sure Victoria and her family talk about her  to them like she’s a mental patient and have convinced them they’ve somehow been mistreated. Their views are so warped and manipulated. 

[Matou]

Britney should sue Kevin right now !

[Greg Sargent]

yikes. sounds like coaching.

 

and of course they're not going to go in front of 16 year olds and tell them how much they love his mom's money. Is he that dumb?

[limecakes]

Wow. Just wow. 
 

at the end of the day, I did not have a mother like Britney Spears… so I wont judge too much… however, its clear that they will never fully understand all the things she went through for them. All the abuse, all the isolation, all the hard work and no play. All the things Jamie did to keep Britney from being confident and seeking to get out. Britney being angry has nothing to do with being mentally unwell. And of course, the version of their grandparents is not the version Britney got. Their grandparents probably treated them really well, probably even Jamie before the outburst. So they will never understand how the whole family failed them. What Kevin has said to them for all their lives has made so much damage. Glad they feel safe with Kevin and his wife, but I Wish one day they get to find the truth of what actually happened. The information is out there. Seems like they are using the kids as mediators and want Britney to let her parents back in. 

[BlackoutITZ]

19 minutes ago, generation glory said:

Things are too far gone to be repaired especially because her own sons refuse to see their mother’s perspective and rational. The Fed Bros are a lost cause. To hell with them!! **** Preston, **** Jayden and **** all of the Federlines!!!!! (Don’t y’all even think of @ me abt what I just said!!)

That's ridiculous. They are 15 and 16, of course there is the possibility of repairing their relationship in the future. We shouldn't be rooting against that. We can acknowledge that this is ****ty of them and Kevin to do, while also hoping for healing and positivity with their relationship with their mother in the future which is likely.

[BlackoutITZ]

3 minutes ago, Dallasguy27 said:

Sounds like her family is still weaponizing her kids against her. Trying to use them to weasel their way back into their lives (they won’t see her unless all the family can see her). I’m sure Victoria and her family talk about her  to them like she’s a mental patient and have convinced them they’ve somehow been mistreated. Their views are so warped and manipulated. 

Bingo. Her sons have always been used to coerce her and emotionally blackmail her, they are still trying it now after the conservatorship is over.

[OutofKontrol]

So, your mom was in a facility where she was seen naked by strangers against her will, had to be on meds against her will, had to work against her will, told what to eat, what to do, and you're upset about it IG pics? "If she'll loves me she'll stop" ?!?!  TF?! YOU DIDNT GIVE LIFE TO BRITNEY, SHE GAVE LIFE TO YOU!!! IF YOU LOVED HER YOU'D CUT CONTACT WITH THE PEOPLE THAT MADE HER WORK LIKE A "RACEHORSE" PER YOUR GRANDPA WORDS DESCRIBING YOUR MOTHER TO HER MOTHER!!! 

I am PRAYING these boys are brainwashed...cause at least THAT is an excuse..