Sam Asghari admits he would prefer if Britney didn't post some of her racy pictures

[Jordan Miller]

5 hours ago, Cancer said:

Theory 1: He's jealous of ***ual attention she's getting.

Theory 2: He's embarassed by her fashion choices.

Theory 3: It's not Britney, it's a clone he is 'training' but she doesn't do as she's told!

Theory 4: Sam shouldn't speak unless he's spoken to.

Totally disagree with all of this. Speak when he's spoken to? No. 

Clone training? Girl what. 

[BlackoutITZ]

25 minutes ago, leviathan said:

oh so they are a sign of empowerment and beauty and strength? 3 day old make up? completely skewed background? then sorry I missed all the sings… I’m sure Sam looks hungover and wasted on his but I must’ve missed that too.

she said it herself that these pictures are somewhat revenge-y because she wants to make people uncomfortable… the problem with that is she’s living to make others angry / uncomfortable not because she’s thriving… this is not healthy for anyone.

did you forget the post she made where she says she knows she didn’t look good and didn’t dance good for most of POM? she is aware and she knows.

so yes it’s sad to see her post these pictures just to piss people off - true peace and true healing and true growth is finally living for herself and not to call out some random guy from a restaurant and bully him at a global scale.

do I understand her? yes. do I know where she’s coming from? YES. is it ok? probably not; just blindly being like YASS girl is not what she needs - what she needs it’s basically what Sam is doing which is respect her boundaries but still give his opinion on those. and yes I agree with his comment 100%

now I will sit and wait until you explain to me how the images she post are so healthy for her… and look EXACTLY like Sam’s and are among the most beautiful and empowering imagines on the internet.

you need to wake up and not confuse blind support as something positive.

was my first comment a bit rude? yes. do you need to completely invalidate it because you don’t agree with it? NO.

and yes, the images she posts scream depression and that is sad to watch… not because of the imagines but because it’s proof she still has a lot of thing to make peace with… which will take time, and we’ll be here for her like we always have. you don’t know me personally and you don’t know how out of my way I went to fight for her rights and for human rights in general.

so stop oversimplifying what I said; and unless you have something to add that is useful; truthful and comes from a good place and will make this conversation better; just give up.

not trying to pick a fight with anyone, and neither should you.

big hugs babe, really nothing personal I don’t even know you.

Okay... for some bizarre reason you have totally invented things that I haven't said at all. Weird.

Where am I "blindly YAASing" anything? Where did I say that everything she posts is healthy? In fact, I haven't said anything in regards to the content she posts, I have only countered the things that you have said. Please try to not put words in my mouth in order to build your own argument because that doesn't work in your favour. I don't personally believe it's any of my business whether or not what she is posting is "healthy", although I do find your double standards of what is healthy and what isn't quite interesting.

I simply pointed out the misogynistic hypocrisy in your post, and you didn't like it. Sam could post topless pics every single day, and nobody would question his mental health. When Britney does it, it's a different story. And before you write another essay about how it's about her appearance in the pictures, I encourage you to reflect on whether that's really the hill you want your argument to die on. So because a woman isn't aesthetically pleasing enough for YOUR standards, of what YOU think a woman should look like in order to have your respect, that means there's something wrong with HER and because she isn't living up to YOUR misogynistic idea of how a woman should look, that means she's depressed and angry? Keep digging that hole while thinking you are making any kind of point. And using her talking about her appearance while in Vegas is completely irrelevant as she was specifically talking about her appearance during POM in Vegas which she didn't like. That doesn't give you the right to bully her because you don't like her appearance on Instagram. Talking about she looks "hungover" and "wasted", and then trying to act innocent and being shocked when you get called out for being a misogynistic bully.  F outta here, sorry you're mad about it.

[super.nova]

4 minutes ago, BlackoutITZ said:

Okay... for some bizarre reason you have totally invented things that I haven't said at all. Weird.

Where am I "blindly YAASing" anything? Where did I say that everything she posts is healthy? In fact, I haven't said anything in regards to the content she posts, I have only countered the things that you have said. Please try to not put words in my mouth in order to build your own argument because that doesn't work in your favour. I don't personally believe it's any of my business whether or not what she is posting is "healthy", although I do find your double standards of what is healthy and what isn't quite interesting.

I simply pointed out the misogynistic hypocrisy in your post, and you didn't like it. Sam could post topless pics every single day, and nobody would question his mental health. When Britney does it, it's a different story. And before you write another essay about how it's about her appearance in the pictures, I encourage you to reflect on whether that's really the hill you want your argument to die on. So because a woman isn't aesthetically pleasing enough for YOUR standards, of what you think a woman should look like in order to have your respect, that means there's something wrong with HER and because she isn't living up to YOUR misogynistic idea of how a woman should look, so that means she's depressed and angry? Keep digging that hole while thinking you are making any kind of point. And using her talking about her appearance while in Vegas is completely irrelevant as she was specifically talking about her appearance during POM in Vegas which she didn't like. That doesn't give you the right to bully her because you don't like her appearance on Instagram. Talking about she looks "hungover" and "wasted", and then trying to act innocent and being shocked when you get called out for being a misogynistic bully.  F outta here, sorry you're mad about it.

you completely missed the point. for like the third time. you just don’t want to see it; you just want to disagree. so you will only disagree.

I give up. 

[BlackoutITZ]

Just now, leviathan said:

you completely missed the point. for like the third time. you just don’t want to see it; you just want to disagree. so you will only disagree.

I give up. 

No, you didn't make any point to miss. You got schooled on your own misogyny, and now because you know you have nothing to argue with you've resorted to just saying "you missed the point". I encourage you to learn from this.

[December02]

I feel like people are being purposefully dense to not see any issue with her photos. Not all nude photos are the same. Some nu des are artistically shot. Some are se xy. Some are motivational. Some are edgy. All of these types require some sort of intent to capture the mood that they’re going for. Britney’s just make me feel sad and uncomfortable because they don’t follow any conventions. They look like they were taken through a mirror without her knowing. I feel like she’s just always been told that her value is her body and that’s what people want from her and I feel uncomfortable engaging with it.

[super.nova]

31 minutes ago, BlackoutITZ said:

No, you didn't make any point to miss. You got schooled on your own misogyny, and now because you know you have nothing to argue with you've resorted to just saying "you missed the point". I encourage you to learn from this.

you need to make peace with the fact that these photos are terrible and that is the point you have missed; and that is the starting point. if you can’t see that then we’ll just have to agree to disagree that’s all.

and before you attack me again… no it’s not because the pictures are tasteless - yes that’s one reason; but not the whole reason.

it’s mostly because she’s doing it to piss people off and to like get “revenge” and make people uncomfortable - which is not healthy.

she is “lashing out” with these pictures which is understandable considering what she went through. but it’s not good for her to want to “take revenge”

when on a path to revenge dig two graves.

why do I say this? because she said it herself it was to make people uncomfortable and included a big F U emoji in past posts.

[GlitterRain]

[Groundbreaking]

Not people attacking him for this. He says that Britney is bullied for something others do too and he would rather she did not post such pics (he's either a yes man OR he sees how people bully her for being comfy in her own skin). Am I just dumb to misinterpret this or are people just lacking bain cells?

[jonloch1]

Listen, its a hard one and ive been vilified on this forum on this subject making out im being horrible for feeling this. But i do worry what is the reason she posts FULLY naked photos. I wouldnt see an issue if she was in her bra and knickers i'd say more power to her. but why fully naked? my worry is its because after all of the years of being controlled and she was forced to strip naked in front of doctors in rehab she has no self respect for her body or privacy. Thats my  worry 

to be honest, this subject is literally the ONLY thing i agree with her boys on

[BlackoutITZ]

56 minutes ago, leviathan said:

you need to make peace with the fact that these photos are terrible and that is the point you have missed; and that is the starting point. if you can’t see that then we’ll just have to agree to disagree that’s all.

and before you attack me again… no it’s not because the pictures are tasteless - yes that’s one reason; but not the whole reason.

it’s mostly because she’s doing it to piss people off and to like get “revenge” and make people uncomfortable - which is not healthy.

she is “lashing out” with these pictures which is understandable considering what she went through. but it’s not good for her to want to “take revenge”

when on a path to revenge dig two graves.

why do I say this? because she said it herself it was to make people uncomfortable and included a big F U emoji in past posts.

They are terrible in YOUR opinion, your opinion is not a fact and that's something you need to make peace with. Nobody is missing a point that wasn't made in the first place. Letting you know that your argument is misogynistic is not attacking you, so please don't try to play the victim after you have made several cruel and bullying remarks about Britney. If Britney wants to make people uncomfortable, after years of being made to feel uncomfortable herself, that's her own right and if you don't have the empathy or emotional maturity to understand that, that's on you. The fact that Britney just feeling comfortable in her own skin is enough to make you uncomfortable says a lot.

[Lmfc1993]

Well I think he is exoressing himself, but also he respects her and her decision. And also think that this photos are pointless! She can empower herself without being naked, she can control of her body. BUT I don't know is she seeking attention!? Is she rebelling!? I hope better times comes for that ig 

[super.nova]

9 minutes ago, BlackoutITZ said:

They are terrible in YOUR opinion, your opinion is not a fact and that's something you need to make peace with. Nobody is missing a point that wasn't made in the first place. Letting you know that your argument is misogynistic is not attacking you, so please don't try to play the victim after you have made several cruel and bullying remarks about Britney. If Britney wants to make people uncomfortable, after years of being made to feel uncomfortable herself, that's her own right and if you don't have the empathy or emotional maturity to understand that, that's on you. The fact that Britney just feeling comfortable in her own skin is enough to make you uncomfortable says a lot.

yes it’s her right, and yes I support it, but posting pictures of ANY nature

just to make people uncomfortable is not a healthy behavior nor does it help you heal.

spin it however you want and call me whatever trendy word you like but that is a fact. and im sorry you can’t see past your need to be right to consider this.

[Greg Sargent]

it would be 100x weirder if he liked it.

[pancake]

11 hours ago, Yanal said:

He is soo right.. Brit was so classy but now.. No hunny.. no..

britney is a lot of awesome things, but classiness has never been one of them

this is the real her

its like people forgot how she used to dress before the cship...

[kissit]

2 hours ago, December02 said:

I feel like people are being purposefully dense to not see any issue with her photos. Not all nude photos are the same. Some nu des are artistically shot. Some are se xy. Some are motivational. Some are edgy. All of these types require some sort of intent to capture the mood that they’re going for. Britney’s just make me feel sad and uncomfortable because they don’t follow any conventions. They look like they were taken through a mirror without her knowing. I feel like she’s just always been told that her value is her body and that’s what people want from her and I feel uncomfortable engaging with it.

yet you keep engaging.

[Kritney]

Why doesn’t Sam take the photos for her then?!?

In all fairness, it’s hard to take an amazing nude photo on your own…

 

[devilsadvocate]

3 hours ago, jonloch1 said:

Listen, its a hard one and ive been vilified on this forum on this subject making out im being horrible for feeling this. But i do worry what is the reason she posts FULLY naked photos. I wouldnt see an issue if she was in her bra and knickers i'd say more power to her. but why fully naked? my worry is its because after all of the years of being controlled and she was forced to strip naked in front of doctors in rehab she has no self respect for her body or privacy. Thats my  worry 

to be honest, this subject is literally the ONLY thing i agree with her boys on

Some **** stars say they got into the industry because they were **** by a family member and it was there way of showing control over their body and how everyone could have their body except the family the assaulted them.

 

I definitely think there is trauma by how her family treated her as well as the general public. Her whole career was about how she can push limits and ***uality and now she’s doing it on her own terms . I think she likes the idea that she’s cheapening the attention on her body … like nobody will care anymore … to me it kind of is similar to the head shave . An F U to the industry and a F U to her family. 

[MX3]

I’m sure Sam doesn’t like it from a social media standpoint … since he is young and “up and coming” all his posts are very intentional and used to showcase his career / modelling / fitness / influencer promo etc. so from that Lense, I’m sure he doesn’t agree w her posts lol but clearly he respects that is not where she’s at with her instagram lol 

[BlackoutITZ]

2 hours ago, leviathan said:

yes it’s her right, and yes I support it, but posting pictures of ANY nature

just to make people uncomfortable is not a healthy behavior nor does it help you heal.

spin it however you want and call me whatever trendy word you like but that is a fact. and im sorry you can’t see past your need to be right to consider this.

Misogyny is not a trendy word, and the fact you think that really tells me everything 

I'm sorry that you're so offended by the sight of a woman doing what she wants and looking the way she wants to, that you make all kinds of assumptions about her mental health and derogatory comments about her appearance. Hopefully one day you will grow up and not have such ignorant views.

[super.nova]

4 hours ago, BlackoutITZ said:

Misogyny is not a trendy word, and the fact you think that really tells me everything 

I'm sorry that you're so offended by the sight of a woman doing what she wants and looking the way she wants to, that you make all kinds of assumptions about her mental health and derogatory comments about her appearance. Hopefully one day you will grow up and not have such ignorant views.

can’t you just agree to disagree and stop harassing me? it’s weird. I’ve explained myself in like 6 different ways and you just can’t let it go.

this feels extremely personal and this is not the point of this forum; you are no longer even talking about my original point. please stop replying to me. you need to learn when to stop and when to let go. it’s really weird what you are doing.