Sam Asghari admits he would prefer if Britney didn't post some of her racy pictures

[super.nova]

43 minutes ago, hello70 said:

I sort of get what you're saying! Although I wouldn't use the word desperate, it feels a bit mean. But for me, it's not the n*des that make me uncomfortable, it's the vibe of the photos themselves. Ordinarily, I think n*des are great! If you got it, flaunt it!

But her posts personally gives me a dark feeling too, not freedom, not liberation. It's hard to explain. In many of the posts her demeanor just seems off. Maybe it's the dark unwashed makeup, maybe it's the stare, maybe it's the quality, the obsession of publicly reposting and deleting multiple times a day, the captions, maybe it's everything all together? It just feels manic to me. I wonder if people with real experience with this maybe get similar vibes? 

These photos are not happening in a vacuum, they are not without context, yet so many fans try to do a simple comparison between her n*des and other celebs when it's simply not the same. I don't understand the persistence in pretending that it is.  Meanwhile, if a friend in real life RIGHT NOW posted the same exact thing in the same exact manner, we'd be calling them ASAP. 

That being said, on the other handdd, I also try to remind myself that maybe I'm just biased because of my own experience with mania and mental health struggles with me and my family. I'm not saying any of this applies to her, it just  a familiar feeling and sometimes I worry if I am projecting that onto her. Regardless, like Paris Hilton and Sam, I always try to leave hearts under all her posts and encouraging notes. In my personal experience, that's the best way to handle it.

I so wholeheartedly agree with you; every word.

[super.nova]

2 hours ago, Passionfruit said:

Stfu mean aşşhole

ok so by your logic how does this comment make you “better” than me?

practice what you preach babe 

[GlitterRain]

[super.nova]

1 hour ago, madara said:

he says "who am i to control someone that's ........" well. Literally, her husband. And it's not controlling. Any husband or even wife would not be ok with it and would probably get in a fight with their spouse over this. That's called being married. it requires, compromise or something like that... 

it has to come from within - it has to come from her; I think it’s great he’s compromised, major respect tbh.

he’s publicly admitting he doesn’t agree so I’m sure they’ve privately discussed it; but he can’t really force her.

[easy]

3 hours ago, BlackoutGlory said:

I think that he would prefer her not to post them is because she gets bullied and attacked for them and then he gets *****ed at because some people think the people around her should be telling her what to do.

But also at the same time, there’s people thinking him and other people are controlling her life so it’s a lose lose situation for him.

this is it EXACTLY! who would want to see their wife get bullied the way britney does for simply being a naked woman in the world? no one! he's not upset about her posting implied *****, he's upset at the reaction she gets for it, and in turn that HE gets **** for not controlling her content. 

[gar]

4 hours ago, Xtianlovebritneyy said:

he is trying his best. 

Do you think he should have the final say?

[faded_fudge]

I mean....I'm THIS close to hide Britney 's posts at all from my TL. I'm tired of seeing her naked each time i go online. I feel uncomfortable 

[Arthurfleck]

3 hours ago, Xtianlovebritneyy said:

I think all the message is important. Yes it’s  true he says he doesn’t want to control her BUT at the same time admits that he would prefer that she doesn’t post some things.

What is wrong with that?

[faded_fudge]

1 hour ago, hello70 said:

I sort of get what you're saying! Although I wouldn't use the word desperate, it feels a bit mean. But for me, it's not the n*des that make me uncomfortable, it's the vibe of the photos themselves. Ordinarily, I think n*des are great! If you got it, flaunt it!

But her posts personally gives me a dark feeling too, not freedom, not liberation. It's hard to explain. In many of the posts her demeanor just seems off. Maybe it's the dark unwashed makeup, maybe it's the stare, maybe it's the quality, the obsession of publicly reposting and deleting multiple times a day, the captions, maybe it's everything all together? It just feels manic to me. I wonder if people with real experience with this maybe get similar vibes? 

These photos are not happening in a vacuum, they are not without context, yet so many fans try to do a simple comparison between her n*des and other celebs when it's simply not the same. I don't understand the persistence in pretending that it is.  Meanwhile, if a friend in real life RIGHT NOW posted the same exact thing in the same exact manner, we'd be calling them ASAP. 

That being said, on the other handdd, I also try to remind myself that maybe I'm just biased because of my own experience with mania and mental health struggles with me and my family. I'm not saying any of this applies to her, it just  a familiar feeling and sometimes I worry if I am projecting that onto her. Regardless, like Paris Hilton and Sam, I always try to leave hearts under all her posts and encouraging notes. In my personal experience, that's the best way to handle it.

Mte.

[super.nova]

2 hours ago, hello70 said:

You guys are overreacting. You have no idea why Sam would prefer she doesn't post certain things, maybe it's because he knows how much people will bully her each time she posts something? Even IF it was because it makes him uncomfortable, what is sooo wrong with that? Many spouses or teenagers would feel the same. 

Fans are so used to YASS QUEENing everything a celeb does, you forget that real people may think differently than pure fans. Not everyone lives in a delusional fan bubble where they pretend everything is perfectly "normal" 100% of the time. 

While he can be cringe sometimes, I personally think it's cool Sam is making a conscience effort to NOT control Britney and to let her be. Isn't that we want for her in a partner? We should be happy that Britney has someone by her side who supports her REGARDLESS of how he feels about her posts. So Kudos on Sam, Britney deserves that kind of support!

completely agree with you - I honestly see both sides 100% - but relationships are about commitment; why are her feelings more important than his? shouldn’t a middle point be reached?

being in a REAL relationship implies REAL compromise and commitment - should we just chose for Sam to suffer because to our eyes he’s “suffered less”?

not disagreeing with you but it’s important to consider both and not give Britney a pass because she is our fave - not that I give a single **** about Sam but he’s human too and he’s got feelings too and Britney should consider them.

at the same time mad respect towards him for being so understanding and so supportive; it’d be nice britney was as understanding and as supportive as him.

she will probably over time, maybe she just needs time. and it’s great he’s giving her that time.

[super.nova]

16 minutes ago, gar said:

Do you think he should have the final say?

not at all, but even Britney herself has said she wants to make people uncomfortable - which is not good FOR HER; she should do things for herself and because she feels like it, not to piss people off.

she’ll see it in time.

[itsxrichiexbish]

what’s with the prudes who think it’s disturbing for a nip to show??? like every body has them… nipples are a natural part of your body 😂😂😂 i just can’t with some ppl here

[GlitterRain]

5 hours ago, leviathan said:

not the same at all; his are done tastefully; hers are sad to say the least.

we all loved when she showed “too much” in the past because it was done tastefully and artistically.

these pics are desperate and sad, it looks like she hasn’t showered in 3 days. it’s a high sign of depression and anger.

You do realize that she was trafficked and abused for over a decade, right? Please ensure that your comments about Britney are respectful. 

[agustinmalandra]

So what's wrong with that? He said what he said

 

He WOULD prefer but WHO is he to tell her no? that's being sincere. Calm Down y'all 

[IndieBritFan]

It’s time to stop with this nudez they are so cheap and she isn’t even single anymore like why so H***y 

[RedCarpet]

He’s her husband, not her boss. Why would he tell her what to post what not? He maybe doesn’t like it but its not his decision 

[Cancer]

Theory 1: He's jealous of ***ual attention she's getting.

Theory 2: He's embarassed by her fashion choices.

Theory 3: It's not Britney, it's a clone he is 'training' but she doesn't do as she's told!

Theory 4: Sam shouldn't speak unless he's spoken to.

[britbitch94]

The ***** are so tired. It’s always the same thing again and again.

[britbitch94]

Not the word “n u d e s” being censored 

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[britisthecolor]

5 hours ago, Prince Ali said:

well, men's naked chest is not perceived in the same way, now is it?

That's the problem we should fix. I will never be OK with the fact that just because my breasts are bigger than men's and stand out more, I am expected to cover them up even though the bare chests of men can be a turn on for most of us women and gays/bi***uals, too. It's not something that cannot be changed. That's why I love Britney's ***** even though most of them don't really look good. I would be even happier if women were allowed to show nipples, too.