Britney Spears does not want you to feel pity for her

[BUWYGF]

All you're saying is right, shes a free independent woman who can feel however and whatever she wishes. However, and I'm saying this as someone who graduated psychiatry, she is lashing out.

She's showing that she has difficulties differentiating pity from empathy. Most of the people are giving her empathy "i know what you've been through and I salute you, you deserve kindness" to which she responds "I DONT NEED YOUR PITY **** YOU." It doesn't even take a degree in psychology/psychiatry for a common person to see that this is something she needs to work on with a professional.

Not to mention that being rude and telling someone to fu*k off only because they were probably doing their job and actually MUST BE NICE to customers, is just not the kind of behaviour that's acceptable socially.  

[Shadow.]

1 minute ago, BUWYGF said:

All you're saying is right, shes a free independent woman who can however and whatever she wishes. However, and I'm saying this as someone who graduated psychiatry, she is lashing out.

She's showing that she has difficulties differentiating pity and empathy. Most of the people are giving her empathy "i know what you've been through and I salute you, you deserve kindness" to which she responds "I DONT NEED YOUR PITY **** YOU." It doesn't even take a degree in psychology/psychiatry for a common person to see that this is something she needs to work on with a professional.

Not to mention that being rude and telling someone to fu*k off only because they were probably doing their job and actually MUST BE NICE to customers, is just not the kind of behaviour that's acceptable socially.  

honestly anyone that thinks britney was going to come out of the c-ship and act like "her old prime self" is delusional, she's been through something not many, if anyone, can really understand. she needs time to heal and grieve the years she lost and it probably won't be a smooth process for her. I just hate all the talk about her "mental illness" and "erratic behaviour" which is very reminiscent of 07-08 tabloids, its like we've learned nothing from what happened back then

[bbbsss]

45 minutes ago, pbarcelos said:

I feel like the whole Jack In The Box story is a metaphor for the fans stop with the pity comments on her messy instagram posts. What he said is what we see on her IG comments all the time.

I also suspect that her possible hate on Selena is

 

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because she told Britney she wanted her tobe happy.

wow, how dare she?

[Style.]

34 minutes ago, BUWYGF said:

All you're saying is right, shes a free independent woman who can feel however and whatever she wishes. However, and I'm saying this as someone who graduated psychiatry, she is lashing out.

She's showing that she has difficulties differentiating pity from empathy. Most of the people are giving her empathy "i know what you've been through and I salute you, you deserve kindness" to which she responds "I DONT NEED YOUR PITY **** YOU." It doesn't even take a degree in psychology/psychiatry for a common person to see that this is something she needs to work on with a professional.

Not to mention that being rude and telling someone to fu*k off only because they were probably doing their job and actually MUST BE NICE to customers, is just not the kind of behaviour that's acceptable socially.  

Probably she’s seeing a specialist but it takes time to heal after being imprisoned for more than a decade. I just wish her to do whatever she wants to do as long as that whatever gives her peacefulness. Do you know what’s not socially acceptable? Kanye’s erratic behavior; Cardi physically assaulting other celebrities; rapists and so on and so forth. I’m not telling you you’re not right lol, but my two cents are that Britney’s ‘fuq off’ is literally not that serious in order for people to call her crazy. 

[Greg Sargent]

OK, but that what is the point of posting sad captions on Instagram about how she was abused...?

[BritneyWiki]

I want her to pity me, for being a Britney fan all these years. It's been rough! I'm barely hanging in there these days. 

[tarotx]

1 minute ago, Greg Sargent said:

OK, but that what is the point of posting sad captions on Instagram about how she was abused...?

She wants to share how she is feeling. She has a lot of anger of what was not to her. There isn't a lot of self-pity. 

[Greg Sargent]

1 minute ago, tarotx said:

She wants to share how she is feeling. She has a lot of anger of what was not to her. There isn't a lot of self-pity. 

She already has a way to do that. And she has been paid handsomely to do it. It's called the $15 million book deal to tell everything bad that happened to her.

 

[danielgeismas]

2 hours ago, Style. said:

You just don’t tell her what to do or say

then why she's telling us not to feel a certain way about her?  i'm sorry but i just don't understand. you can't stand pity, ok, but how else do expect people to react after all that you've been through? not showing compassion would mean not caring at all, imo.

[Greg Sargent]

1 minute ago, alexmontani said:

then why she's telling us not to feel a certain way about her?  i'm sorry but i just don't understand. you can't stand pity, ok, but how else do expect people to react after all that you've been through? not showing compassion would mean not caring at all, imo.

It doesn't make sense.

 

She put Christina Aguilera on blast for not speaking up about the conservatorship nor showing sympathy...

 

 

And now she puts down random people for showing that they care...

 

Make up your mind, woman!

[Daniela.tomasseli]

If Sam had no intentions on trying to be famous and make it in Hollywood, do you guys think he’d still be with Britney? 

[easy]

5 minutes ago, Daniela.tomasseli said:

If Sam had no intentions on trying to be famous and make it in Hollywood, do you guys think he’d still be with Britney? 

do you think britney is only lovable because she is famous 🥴

[Style.]

4 minutes ago, easy said:

do you think britney is only lovable because she is famous 🥴

They can’t separate the pop star from the person 

[Daniela.tomasseli]

5 minutes ago, easy said:

do you think britney is only lovable because she is famous 🥴

 

[easy]

Just now, Daniela.tomasseli said:

 

[Greg Sargent]

14 minutes ago, Daniela.tomasseli said:

If Sam had no intentions on trying to be famous and make it in Hollywood, do you guys think he’d still be with Britney? 

If Sam wasn't hot and looked more like Winston Churchill, do you think Britney'd still be with him?

[HairFlipQueen]

Actually I don’t pity her, and I don’t think that worker did either. I’ve thought about this whole thing today, and I think my initial reaction was the right one. I don’t like what she’s done here and it’s seriously turned me off her 😰 If it was anyone else talking about someone like this I’d think it was a shi tty thing to say.
 

And if someone else talked about Britney in this way I’d be coming for them too, no matter who they are. It’s just horrible and not ok as a human to talk about another human with such vitriol and spite.

 

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empathy/compassion/sympathy differ from pity

that being said, i don't care if she wants to yell at people and run through the streets naked. society has owned britney spears long enough.

[RadicalOptimism]

4 hours ago, Style. said:

Honestly it saddens me to see the only 4 people defending Britney Spears on here. Clearly we should form a legion named ‘DefendingBritneySpears’ @easy @blackingouthenegativity @GlitterRain @KrisJ 

Don’t get me wrong, it’s not like we’re being delusional over her actions but it’s just a thing of nuance when things like this happens. This customer intentions were NOT in the right either! 

Girl calm down. Britney was being rude plain and simple. You can reject pity without going on a rant about it online

[Style.]

4 minutes ago, CrazyButItFeelsAllright said:

Girl calm down. Britney was being rude plain and simple. You can reject pity without going on a rant about it online

I just hate the way people are attacking her on here.