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    • Gosh can you stop taking Cade - aka  @that's hot y'all - to your mouth? He is the last one who would do something (good) in her life.  
    • This "you're a nobody" narrative shop stop, because it's extremely damaging, but since nobody cares about nobodies, you can't even imagine what's going on in the real world, you believe things like this only happens to your favorite celebrity. Do you know how it happens to nobodies? How do they live? I can give you a few examples. You go crazy because you work too much and the stress triggers some underlying mental problems out, and you're sent into a facility for 8 months. The first thing you remember is asking a nurse about a doctor, but she tells you it's a long weekend, so doctors don't work, you have to wait until Tuesday. Ok. On Tuesday you have to face with 3 judge-like characters that actually represent a court, and you get 2-3 mins to prove you're sane enough to leave, but of course your doc who barely talked with you tells them you're not ok. So you have to stay for 8 months. You get a few weeks to think about your situation, but you don't have a phone, internet access, or money. You can't talk to anyone, you just wait for something to happen. You remember you were in the middle of the divorce, you wanted to sell your house etc, but you're helpless. A few weeks later your loved ones, those dear loved ones finally show up to talk with you, they tell you you've got a conservator and there's nothing to worry about. You get some money to spend in the cafeteria as well, hurray. When they finally let you out, your dear conservator gives you a lift and shows you the new place you're going to live. You don't have a choice. You can live alone in the condo he bought from your own money for you, he lives two doors away, and you have to notify him every time you leave your condo to walk the dogs or something. You realize you got divorced with the worst conditions, you have to pay child support and alimony, and you had to buy a really expensive condo for your ex who doesn't work, and she promised she's not planning to go back to California from Europe, so you will see your son. That was its price. Your conservator tells you, since you don't work, you can't afford to live in a bigger condo, but you'll get a lot of passive income in the future from businesses, so no worries. But you can't really spend yet. Ok. But you have to pay two expensive trips for your ex and son because that's also in the agreement. Ok. They finally tell you your money is actually handled by a company, and you have to talk with them if you want to buy something bigger, but you get some allowance. Ok. You want to buy some stuff, so you call your financial conservator's office, but the assistant always tells you he's too busy. You visit them in person, the assistant tells you you're not on the list of clients, so she can give you an appointment 3 weeks later. You can't reach your financial conservator. You call your lawyer to do something, he says hmmm, that's not normal, you should, he will call you back. He sends an email two days later, because you're not his favorite client, you're a nobody. You finally get some money a few weeks later. You're told they won't tell you anything about your money situation because that triggers your anger issues, and that's not something they want. You can't drive, they took your car away, you don't even know where it is, you always have to call a cab for yourself from your own allowance. You have to see a psychiatrist and a therapist weekly, or often two or three times a week you didn't choose, and you don't even like them. They sometimes cancel appointments when they please, but you can't, because you just can't, you have to go. You psychiatrist barely talks with you, he only does the bare minumum, he only talks to your conservator, and he doesn't have to tell you what's going on. Your shrink calls you one day when you're taking a nap, so he wakes you up, and you sounded drunk in the phone according to him, so you have to visit him immeditely and you can't see your son for weeks until you prove yourself. You sometimes snap and you throw an ice coffee to your conservator's head, so you have to visit your therapist on a Sunday for double the price because you can't behave and you're dangerous. People tell you you can't blame your conservator and the shrinks, you are their responsibility, and they always have to make sure you're sane enough to see your child, and that you don't drink because that'd be dangerous for your health. Should I say more? Is it really THAT different for us nobodies? Do you know what is the real difference? We don't have millions of dollars to spend on assistants, drivers, private chefs, the best doctors and lawyers, we can't afford vacations but we have to pay for others' vacations, even though we're the ill ones who should avoid being stressed. But you said it yourself, nobodies are not exploited because no one cares about them, while in reality yes, they are, but no one cares about their exploitation, because they don't have millions of fans who'd at least try to protect and defend them. You always have to take responsibility, own your shyte and prove, and being extremely disciplined, she doesn't have to. So stop this. Britney's situation is unique with its own pros and cons, but a nobody's life is definitely not better just because they're not famous. Britney is often in a better situation than a nobody, despite the paps and the media circus.
    • I believe she is doing that on her time. I mean she is consistent with not seeing her family. I just cant see her destroying what she has endured and survived for so long. I trust her mind so much, she will come through this.
    • No, I'm a meme. Bullying doesnt work on me.
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