Britney’s former dancer Willie Gomez responds to Britney saying her dancers never invited her to things: your team never allowed you to be part of anything with us

[Slayer]

5 minutes ago, the_blackout said:

Do an interview or release a book Britney. But please STFU. The hateful posts are repetitive and annoying AF. 

Go to therapy and lay low until you're ready to turn this page.

What is wrong with you? Don't follow her or read if you get so triggered.

She's literally expressed the amount of trauma she's had from therapy and you're telling her to go get some and shut up?

You know people recover from trauma by speaking, she is so brave opening up to us. This is healing for her.

[RebellionSparkles]

17 minutes ago, The Greatest Show said:

She is also calling an assistant who couldn't handle the attention and paparazzi selfish.

How does this not make sense? She said this assistant really loved her and the boys but left them bc she couldn’t handle the pressure of the paps etc that Brit has dealt with everyday of her adult life. I totally understand the assistant's decision bc I wouldn’t be able to handle it either. But from Britney's perspective, someone she had grown close to left her for the wolves.

[Urbanney]

Don’t forget the comments from Trish (not a dancer but Britney’s POM stylist) according to @PokemonSpears: 

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Babes!!! You were invited!!! You were invited over and over again!!!! I promise you. I would ask robin, I would ask Larry, I would ask your dad. You had even said in front of me multiple times.. we should do something on the day off all together. I would text robin that next morning saying we were all in the same hotel that day. It would be a easy day to go do something. I know some dancers would try to invite you along on days off to the zoo.. and just go to the gym or go hang by the pool. We were always told no, and to not get too close. I was told that if you said something directly to me or invited me somewhere, that to not take it seriously… because you would forget by the next day. I don’t ever want you thinking that you didn’t have people around you that cared or weren’t treating you like you were human like us. You are.. I know it. Us mommas and aunties and even your carp guys back stage would have ******* loved you hanging in lobby bar and we would have had a blast! I know it. Just a normal giggle fest! I’m very sorry that I was there and you didn’t know I ever invited you anywhere. I would pay for your dinner in a heart beat. Babes, I would buy stuff with my own money I thought you would like and sneak gifts from fans into your dressing room after robin would tell me not to, not because I wanted you to like me.. or any **** like that. I wanted something to make you happy.. ok.. now I’m rambling!!! Got me all worked up. I’m so glad you are able to write.. you are so amazing at writing and your heart is gold. It’s all so much for anyone to understand.. but I love that you are getting it ALL out. I ******* knew that you were never told we asked if you wanted to come over in vegas and have sushi at our condo and watch TV and hang on the balcony with us moms in PJs.. and it’s bull****. I’m sorry you were never told and I’m so ******* sorry I never pushed harder on the lies I was told about you. My stomach hurts.. uhggggg

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Ohhhh the lake party!!!! It just clicked!!! YOU WERE INVITED!! It was one of the dancers birthdays.. and I really want to say they even wrote you a card.. inviting you and at a M&G.. and was trying to give it directly to you but robin took it and said she would give it to you.. we knew that wouldn’t happen.. Then robin would rub things in your face like.. did you see what the dancers did over the break?? And have one of them show you a photo. They were ******* evil! **** I’m just pissed now.

 

[Endlessstan]

1 hour ago, Mayenaise said:

Just saw this and things are starting to make sense now... She's lashing out at anyone and everyone. She has misplaced anger and she's directing it at the wrong people. 

The fact she's so "anti" therapy now and has all these thoughts is not a good sign... She needs to see someone for her mental health, before she spirals and ends up alienating herself from everyone who loves and supports her.

You must have inside knowledge. Oh wait, no you don’t. She needs to express herself, even if you don’t agree with her perspective. 

[the_blackout]

3 minutes ago, Slayer said:

What is wrong with you? Don't follow her or read if you get so triggered.

She's literally expressed the amount of trauma she's had from therapy and you're telling her to go get some and shut up?

You know people recover from trauma by speaking, she is so brave opening up to us. This is healing for her.

YES, she needs therapy more than ever. Not all therapies are bad. Even she said that she needs it in her testimony ..

And anybody who thinks it's normal to keep putting out nonsense and negativity daily in social media is a good thing to do is DELUSIONAL.

Keep a journal to let it out. Release a classy comprehensible book is you want to share your story.

I'm mad because, with those nonsense posts, she gives them the right to say 'Told ya, she's not well'. And I would hate for them to win in the public eye

I love her, but I'm not going to say amen to anything she does or say.

Plus, Britney always was that girl who says ''I don't like people who complain a lot'' ... 

Be a FAN not a STAN.

 

You can ban me Dear. I'm out anyway.

 

 

[Slayer]

1 minute ago, the_blackout said:

YES, she needs therapy more than ever. Not all therapies are bad. Even she said that she needs it in her testimony ..

And anybody who thinks it's normal to keep putting out nonsense and negativity daily in social media is a good thing to do is DELUSIONAL.

Keep a journal to let it out. Release a classy comprehensible book is you want to share your story.

I'm mad because, with those nonsense posts, she gives them the right to say 'Told ya, she's not well'. And I would hate for them to win in the public eye

I love her, but I'm not going to say amen to anything she does or say.

Plus, Britney always was that girl who says ''I don't like people who complain a lot'' ... 

Be a FAN not a STAN.

 

You can ban me Dear. I'm out anyway.

 

 

Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

You say to be a 'fan', but I struggle with how you even fit that criteria with attacking her this much.

[TomasBR]

I believe Britney doesn't know how messy her situation was. And if all of this never end up in a trial, she might never know. 

[The Greatest Show]

5 minutes ago, RebellionSparkles said:

How does this not make sense? She said this assistant really loved her and the boys but left them bc she couldn’t handle the pressure of the paps etc that Brit has dealt with everyday of her adult life. I totally understand the assistant's decision bc I wouldn’t be able to handle it either. But from Britney's perspective, someone she had grown close to left her for the wolves.

Expecting a non famous person who has issues with dealing with all the craziness that comes with fame to sick around just because you want her to is selfish in itself.  Just because britney has to deal with it doesn't mean others have to too. 

[car]

I’m not trying to be anti-Sam; I’m not.. I think he’s great and they’re so happy together. But I’m still confused what they talked about and how he was allowed to get close if nobody else was. Maybe team con gave her bfs to make her feel better but this spiralled out of their control. But I also don’t understand how he wasn’t like ‘babe they’re isolating you..’ 

[blackingouthenegativity]

1 hour ago, Mayenaise said:

Just saw this and things are starting to make sense now... She's lashing out at anyone and everyone. She has misplaced anger and she's directing it at the wrong people. 

The fact she's so "anti" therapy now and has all these thoughts is not a good sign... She needs to see someone for her mental health, before she spirals and ends up alienating herself from everyone who loves and supports her.

First of all, we don't know if she is or isn't in therapy. She has bashed it, but also acknowledged during her testimony that she needs it. So quit speculating about her mental health being horrible. That's never worked. People have been doing that since the mid-2000s and have had it so, so wrong for many years. 

Yes, she is lashing out. She is pissed. Huge injustices were brought against Britney and people just shrugged it off or enabled it. Of course she's angry. Obviously anger isn't a good permanent emotion to have, but when someone nice like Britney just takes it for so long and was never allowed to be angry through most of it, I think it's unfair to criticize her for being royally pissed off at the industry that mistreated her. 

[overprotected_leo]

1 hour ago, Annabanana said:

Maybe she still feels like if they saw her being isolated, they should have done something.

but the problem is nobody could have, they will lose their jobs if they did for sure 

[blackingouthenegativity]

10 minutes ago, The Greatest Show said:

Expecting a non famous person who has issues with dealing with all the craziness that comes with fame to sick around just because you want her to is selfish in itself.  Just because britney has to deal with it doesn't mean others have to too. 

That's easy to say if you have at least some sort of base support from friends and/or family. Some of us aren't so lucky to be dealt a good hand in life and it hurts when people turn their back on you. 

I totally get what you're saying, but Britney was constantly abandoned and sold out by people that supposedly cared about her. I think two things can be true at the same time. It's hard for someone non-famous to deal with that media circus, but it's hard for anyone to deal with it... especially alone. 

[super.nova]

7 minutes ago, car said:

I’m not trying to be anti-Sam; I’m not.. I think he’s great and they’re so happy together. But I’m still confused what they talked about and how he was allowed to get close if nobody else was. Maybe team con gave her bfs to make her feel better but this spiralled out of their control. But I also don’t understand how he wasn’t like ‘babe they’re isolating you..’ 

Yup, not a good look honestly - it reminds me of the controlling Britney Spears documentary where Liz says that every relationship she had was carefully managed.

This documentary also elaborates on how everyone on her team was told to stay away from her, has she not watched them? I think she should watch them all. A lot of things will be more clear for her.

[overprotected_leo]

1 hour ago, argentinian.in.telaviv said:

I think she wants them to respond so she has back up from few people, that way she won't seem off and still be able to call out and blame the conservatorship.

This would be the only valid reason, if not then something is very off now, because she knew in what kind of system she was and what they were doing to her

Sometimes I feel like she is lying most of the time, for example that bath has curves  

So I am not sure about the book idea, most of that would not be even true maybe  

If she is gonna write in the book like these insta posts, I prefer For the record 2! 

[BreatheForBritney]

22 minutes ago, the_blackout said:

YES, she needs therapy more than ever. Not all therapies are bad. Even she said that she needs it in her testimony ..

And anybody who thinks it's normal to keep putting out nonsense and negativity daily in social media is a good thing to do is DELUSIONAL.

Keep a journal to let it out. Release a classy comprehensible book is you want to share your story.

I'm mad because, with those nonsense posts, she gives them the right to say 'Told ya, she's not well'. And I would hate for them to win in the public eye

I love her, but I'm not going to say amen to anything she does or say.

Plus, Britney always was that girl who says ''I don't like people who complain a lot'' ... 

Be a FAN not a STAN.

 

You can ban me Dear. I'm out anyway.

 

 

you're making a lot of assumptions, deciding what's good what's not good for her. it's incredibly human and normal for her to feel things. you think it's negative because you're focusing on the negative. if she doesn't care what the public think, why should you? if writing these things help her heal, why judge her?

[Busybee]

Yall have to accept we will never understand her perception none of us are famous much less her level of famous. She was told for so many years lies and lies and after a while its only normal for her to start to believe them. It probably won't matter if they tell her all day long that she was invited because she was trained to believe no body around her liked her. She has to Un learn everything team con taught her. I said this is the other thread but her perception is HER reality even if it's not the true reality.

So those going after Sam and Vicky maybe they have told her it doesn't mean she believes it because for so long she was made not to believe that kind of thing. It's a process and we can't expect her to have the same thought process as us 

[warioaddams]

She doesn't know the magnitud of isolation she had. All the líes they told her. It was like they placed her in a bubble where no one could get in. 

 

[DonMegaX]

46 minutes ago, Slayer said:

What is wrong with you? Don't follow her or read if you get so triggered.

She's literally expressed the amount of trauma she's had from therapy and you're telling her to go get some and shut up?

You know people recover from trauma by speaking, she is so brave opening up to us. This is healing for her.

This is why I call her instagram a privilege. She is effectively destroying the image that people have of her and some (many) don't know how to square that with the Britney Spears they've placed on this pedestal. She's being transparent in a way that you don't see celebrities be. She's not being Britney Spears, pop megastar. She's being Britney Spears, the woman. It's shattering what people think they knew of her. And they're really not listening to that. So they'll say she needs to go away and get therapy, because they're not here for the traumatized human Britney Spears. If they were, they would at least try to understand the torment that therapy became for her. They'll say she's lashing out at others instead of seeing the aftermath of the systematic isolating and deception she dealt with for a decade. They'll ignore when she says countless times when she says she does not trust people and ask why doesn't she reach out to these people. They'll question Sam and his motives, completely ignoring that she just said she doesn't trust people, but somehow trusts him with her heart. It doesn't jive with what they've built her up to be, so they'd rather she took it away instead of them staying away.

She's sorting through and addressing the trauma she's gone through. We're getting a raw look at her feelings. It's going to be messy. Her dancers took the proper approach:  They validated her feelings, took it on the chin, apologized and professe their genuine love for her as a person. That's what we as a fanbase have to do. Or just let her go altogether if we don't like her choices.

[very_urban]

2 hours ago, Mayenaise said:

Just saw this and things are starting to make sense now... She's lashing out at anyone and everyone. She has misplaced anger and she's directing it at the wrong people. 

The fact she's so "anti" therapy now and has all these thoughts is not a good sign... She needs to see someone for her mental health, before she spirals and ends up alienating herself from everyone who loves and supports her.

Lashing out? You might as well just diagnose her with hysteria like a Victorian era doctor.

[danielpierce]

11 minutes ago, very_urban said:

Lashing out? You might as well just diagnose her with hysteria like a Victorian era doctor.

She has been isolated and lonely for 14 years, thats incredibly hard in itself now + all the narcissistic abuse has changed her perception and the way she relates to people and that is definitely not healthy that she cant trust people, have no confidence and she fume and outrage like that, her writing these posts shows she is struggling. She needs professional help, the doctors under team con were complicit but now she is out of it Im sure there are many good psychologist to help her process and deal, open her up to people. Going through this alone is incredibly hard and there is little chance she could recover by herself. 14 years of abuse and trauma leaves psychopathological changes in your mind.