Britney: I'm easily manipulated and wear my heart on my sleeve, but I'm definitely changing all that

[Fita]

These are the parts which I can relate, Britney:

 

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It's so weird being single

I agree. It's like ugh, but then, yeah, whatever.

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I've realized I don't talk to myself that nicely at all

I'm hard at myself too. But I think there's a reason behind it. Like I'm hard at myself so that way I can grow or... be more disciplined.

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I wear my heart on my sleeve

 

I'm totally like that specially with ma family.

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I have to make time to stop and look around to re-evaluate myself and say is this good for me ???

Yeah. It would be good for me to do it.

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I like a routine and I usually do the same thing every day …. l'm honestly bored but I'm also scared of a lot of things …

Me. Also me.

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She used to go to when I was younger and the nuns always gave me cookies

I love cookies  (finally an event to use that emoji, lol!)

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When I take a picture of it the illusion is that it's connected to the trees outside … It’s pretty beautiful when the sun hits at the right spot … The pictures look like diamonds glistening everywhere 

I love nature too.

But i'm sure it doesn't compare to contemplate it personally/live.

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l'm honestly not even sure why I'm writing this nonsense !!!?? 

Because you're a writerney and because it's good and therapeutic to just write it down... I also love to write.

[jordeezy river red]

I live a completely different life than Britney but we have a eerily similar temperament and personalities. I just "get" her. 

[Nina Dobrev]

11 hours ago, Dark Willow said:

Honestly the first half she basically wrote what some us fans are saying for a long time... she is easily manipulated. And how unhealthy her relationships are because of this, she clearly never loved herself and never reavaluate the toxic patterns...

Good thing she finally admitted

Funny that some others fans were freaking out denying this other day when she posted that  Isaac Cohen picture lol 

 

We were literally saying this exact thing she just admitted to and we got bagged for it.  
I'm hoping that since she knows this, I want to see her succeed at keeping them at arms length even if she reconciles with everyone.   I don't want to see Britney hurt ever again by the people who should love her the most. 

[sodapopbritney]

I totally relate to her. My life feels in limbo, I’m sure hers does too. Where there’s so many possibilities but you’re too scared to make any changes. To disrupt the routine, no matter how boring it is. 
 

But things will change for her, mistakes will happen, but I hope she makes the leap 

[GmailMyHeart]

12 hours ago, Barmy86 said:

Britney will do what she wants to o and the fans should let her do it. We know she will be screwed over bc of how humble she is but it's been proven she falls.

now these posts are way too long she should move to X and posts there 

How humble? You mean gullible? 

[GmailMyHeart]

1 hour ago, Nina Dobrev said:

We were literally saying this exact thing she just admitted to and we got bagged for it.  
I'm hoping that since she knows this, I want to see her succeed at keeping them at arms length even if she reconciles with everyone.   I don't want to see Britney hurt ever again by the people who should love her the most. 

I bet there will still be fans that deny anything is wrong because she’s freeeee LiViNg HeR BeSt LiFe!!!!  

[Dark Willow]

1 hour ago, Nina Dobrev said:

We were literally saying this exact thing she just admitted to and we got bagged for it.  
I'm hoping that since she knows this, I want to see her succeed at keeping them at arms length even if she reconciles with everyone.   I don't want to see Britney hurt ever again by the people who should love her the most. 

"Negative fans" right again. 

Yeah. She better learn for good to love herself first and stop to reach to abusers type...

However, I don't know if she understands completely if we judge by the fact shes forgiving her mother so easily. And her BFF being Cade. 

But if she stop to date toxic men like Kevin, Jasons, Isaac, Scam and criminal Paul, maybe some things will be better for her.

[whenthedogscaneout]

13 hours ago, Dark Willow said:

PS. Brit your family is manipulating you again girl... have a good routine day

Sad. I was actually not judging her at all for spending time with them on her birthday, especially with her father’s condition, but the reports ever since have been awful. 

Releasing a picture of Britney on her moms lap, as if she is her sick daughters savior… gross! Why take a picture and release it to the press? And why did BRITNEY make a post about how she forgives her family?! Did they talk her into it? Real reconciliation doesn’t require cameras and IG posts. 

[Gutterguppy]

45 minutes ago, Dark Willow said:

"Negative fans" right again. 

Yeah. She better learn for good to love herself first and stop to reach to abusers type...

However, I don't know if she understands completely if we judge by the fact shes forgiving her mother so easily. And her BFF being Cade. 

But if she stop to date toxic men like Kevin, Jasons, Isaac, Scam and criminal Paul, maybe some things will be better for her.

She needs to figure these things out for herself, which is what she seems to be doing. Reading what a bunch of fans say on a forum isn't going to just flip a switch on in her mind. 

[Elle90s]

Sadly Brit I don’t know when those bad decisions are going to change especially after the first two fail marriages now the third one only after a year. If you are bored volunteer at your local hospital or with the less fortunate that will change your life. 

[Dark Willow]

30 minutes ago, Gutterguppy said:

She needs to figure these things out for herself, which is what she seems to be doing. Reading what a bunch of fans say on a forum isn't going to just flip a switch on in her mind. 

 Everybody here wants the best for Britney, and we have the right to have opinions about her life. That's it.

This is a Britney forum, we all talk about her life. If some people have problems with that... they shouldn't be here.

If u agree she needs to figure these things out, don't attack others for pointing out the obvious. She should read more some fans instead of keep with "Yes people" by her side.

Periodt 

Edited December 10, 2023 by Dark Willow

[Gutterguppy]

Just now, Dark Willow said:

 Everybody here wants the best for Britney, and we have the right to have opinions about her life. That's it.

This is a Britney forum, we all talk about her life. If some people have problems with that... they shouldn't be here.

If u agree she needs to figure these thing out, don't attack others for pointing out the obvious. She should read more some fans instead of keep with "Yes people" by her side.

Periodt 

Yup, here we go, 'everyone is allowed to voice their opinion'. Did I put a weapon to your head and say you're not allowed to type out your words?

You seem more pre-occupied with wanting to be right, passing shady remarks  and making fun of Britney's choices. Maybe you should focus more on giving her grace to figure out things she wasn't allowed to for the past 13 years of her life. 

[Dark Willow]

1 hour ago, whenthedogscaneout said:

Sad. I was actually not judging her at all for spending time with them on her birthday, especially with her father’s condition, but the reports ever since have been awful. 

Releasing a picture of Britney on her moms lap, as if she is her sick daughters savior… gross! Why take a picture and release it to the press? And why did BRITNEY make a post about how she forgives her family?! Did they talk her into it? Real reconciliation doesn’t require cameras and IG posts. 

It seems all very forced and I think it will backfire with time.

She was dragging her mom like days before the lap picture. Not normal.

Forgiveness need time and maturity. Her mother didn't change, probably only said she sorry. Actions are way more important than words.

[Gutterguppy]

9 minutes ago, Gutterguppy said:

Yup, here we go, 'everyone is allowed to voice their opinion'. Did I put a weapon to your head and say you're not allowed to type out your words?

You seem more pre-occupied with wanting to be right, passing shady remarks  and making fun of Britney's choices. Maybe you should focus more on giving her grace to figure out things she wasn't allowed to for the past 13 years of her life. 

Still typing 

[Dark Willow]

12 minutes ago, Gutterguppy said:

Yup, here we go, 'everyone is allowed to voice their opinion'. Did I put a weapon to your head and say you're not allowed to type out your words?

You seem more pre-occupied with wanting to be right, passing shady remarks  and making fun of Britney's choices. Maybe you should focus more on giving her grace to figure out things she wasn't allowed to for the past 13 years of her life. 

Haha I only made fun of the arrogance of fans calling others negative every time we say things with Britney are not ok.

I only wrote people were mad here because we said Britney like problematic men and is attached to abusive cycles. Britney confirmed herself, and no problem fans realizing that... 

 Maybe you should stop act like I was talking to you, If you don't consider yourself one of these fans,  it wasn't about you. 

Edited December 10, 2023 by Dark Willow

[Gutterguppy]

1 minute ago, Dark Willow said:

Haha I only made fun of the arrogance of fans calling others negative every time we say things with Britney are not ok.

I only wrote people were mad here because we said Britney like problematic men and is attached to abusive cycles. Britney confirmed herself, and no problem fans realizing that... 

 Maybe you should stop act like I was talking to you, If you don't consider yourselve one of these fans,  it wasn't about you. 

Took 5 minutes just to type all this, ok. 

Edited December 10, 2023 by Gutterguppy

[Dark Willow]

Just now, Gutterguppy said:

Took 5 minutes just to type of all this, ok. 

[Nina Dobrev]

2 hours ago, Gutterguppy said:

She needs to figure these things out for herself, which is what she seems to be doing. Reading what a bunch of fans say on a forum isn't going to just flip a switch on in her mind. 

I think as someone who's always been on the fence with her family, by all mean she's more than capable now to do exactly that... Figure out if her family is necessary for her life or not.  I just REALLY hope it doesn't backfire; it's all I care about.   I'm VERY hesitant to say it's the right thing to do but she's a grown *** woman - but ultimately, yeah, it's not my business it really.  A lot of people take the piss but for real, as someone who has way too much empathy like Britney, it can be so damn easy to fall into a trap every damn time it sounds nice.  I do want her happy, but I will never stop calling her family leeching sacks of **** that deserve nothing but her middle finger, regardless of reconciliation. 

Edited December 10, 2023 by Nina Dobrev

[BRITannico]

Girl, come visit me.

No one would believe that you were “lost” in Pennsylvania, we could do many things together.

 

[Gutterguppy]

3 hours ago, Nina Dobrev said:

I think as someone who's always been on the fence with her family, by all mean she's more than capable now to do exactly that... Figure out if her family is necessary for her life or not.  I just REALLY hope it doesn't backfire; it's all I care about.   I'm VERY hesitant to say it's the right thing to do but she's a grown *** woman - but ultimately, yeah, it's not my business it really.  A lot of people take the piss but for real, as someone who has way too much empathy like Britney, it can be so damn easy to fall into a trap every damn time it sounds nice.  I do want her happy, but I will never stop calling her family leeching sacks of **** that deserve nothing but her middle finger, regardless of reconciliation. 

Look, I get it. I'm highly suspicious of Lynne, JL, Bryan, etc. still, but if Britney wants to extend that olive branch, then it's her decision. We need to have a little bit more faith in her and trust that she's making the best decision for herself. All we can do is continue to hope for the best.