Britney says her boys ghost her and would ditch her on Christmas: "it's payback"

[iZacaree]

I think this issue is a lot more complex that what we think we know. Her caption says a lot, if you pay attention. 
 

1. The boys are “visiting” her on Christmas? I’ve seen Britney refer to the time she spent with them as “visits” several times now. It seems like there was a significant drop in her amount of custodial time. This was probably for a reason. 
 

2. But who’s fault is it? Let’s not pretend like Britney was a good parent, at least not for a while. Originally, Britney lost custody of the boys back in 2007 because she was completely off the rails. She spent her time partying, refused to attend parenting classes, abused substances, was in and out of rehab, and didn’t attend required court hearings. No judge in their right mind would’ve given her custody in 2007/2008. 
 

3. Britney’s posts about her sons wreak of parental narcissism. She is only calling out their behavior and their lack of a desire to want to spend time with her, but fails to examine WHY they don’t want to spend time with her. She’s always throwing up all the material things she provided for them as solid reasons they should want to be around her. Not only is she blasting them online for all the world to see (one of whom is still a minor), but nowhere does she acknowledge the part she played in why there is a distance between them.
 

4. We don’t know what goes on behind closed doors and the boys have stayed constant in their desire to NOT want to be around Britney. Something clearly happened that made them extremely uncomfortable. Kids aren’t just going to want to permanently stay away from a parent unless there was significant damage and trauma. 
 

Check yourself before you put all the blame on her kids. They are victims in this situation. 

Edited October 12, 2023 by iZacaree

[jordeezy river red]

As someone who dates someone with kids almost the same age as Britney's kids, I empathize but I could never post about it so publicly. Holidays are rough for divorced families. 

Edited October 12, 2023 by jor to tha deezy

[whenthedogscaneout]

12 minutes ago, iZacaree said:

I think this issue is a lot more complex that what we think we know. Her caption says a lot, if you pay attention. 
 

1. The boys are “visiting” her on Christmas? I’ve seen Britney refer to the time she spent with them as “visits” several times now. It seems like there was a significant drop in her amount of custodial time. This was probably for a reason. 
 

2. But who’s fault is it? Let’s not pretend like Britney was a good parent, at least not for a while. Originally, Britney lost custody of the boys back in 2007 because she was completely off the rails. She spent her time partying, refused to attend parenting classes, abused substances, was in and out of rehab, and didn’t attend required court hearings. No judge in their right mind would’ve given her custody in 2007/2008. 
 

3. Britney’s posts about her sons wreak of parental narcissism. She is only calling out their behavior and their lack of a desire to want to spend time with her, but fails to examine WHY they don’t want to spend time with her. She’s always throwing up all the material things she provided for them as solid reasons they should want to be around her. Not only is she blasting them online for all the world to see (one of whom is still a minor), but nowhere does she acknowledge the part she played in why there is a distance between them.
 

4. We don’t know what goes on behind closed doors and the boys have stayed constant in their desire to NOT want to be around Britney. Something clearly happened that made them extremely uncomfortable. Kids aren’t just going to want to permanently stay away from a parent unless there was significant damage and trauma. 
 

Check yourself before you put all the blame on her kids. They are victims in this situation. 

Hmm… you almost sound personally involved. 

[Lisa_Renault]

1 hour ago, Politik said:

It’s disgusting what they did to her. Her kids were brainwashed against their mother. 

Yes but a mother should not attack her own children either. Britney is like Medea.  She wants revenge on her own bloodline, both mother and sons! It's horrible! 😔 

[thegrove]

Well if children are raised by a ****head, and by that I mean they didn't let Britney do it obviously, so SHOCKING that it appears SP and his younger brother are awful POS. 

[HairFlipQueen]

20 minutes ago, iZacaree said:

I think this issue is a lot more complex that what we think we know. Her caption says a lot, if you pay attention. 
 

1. The boys are “visiting” her on Christmas? I’ve seen Britney refer to the time she spent with them as “visits” several times now. It seems like there was a significant drop in her amount of custodial time. This was probably for a reason. 
 

2. But who’s fault is it? Let’s not pretend like Britney was a good parent, at least not for a while. Originally, Britney lost custody of the boys back in 2007 because she was completely off the rails. She spent her time partying, refused to attend parenting classes, abused substances, was in and out of rehab, and didn’t attend required court hearings. No judge in their right mind would’ve given her custody in 2007/2008. 
 

3. Britney’s posts about her sons wreak of parental narcissism. She is only calling out their behavior and their lack of a desire to want to spend time with her, but fails to examine WHY they don’t want to spend time with her. She’s always throwing up all the material things she provided for them as solid reasons they should want to be around her. Not only is she blasting them online for all the world to see (one of whom is still a minor), but nowhere does she acknowledge the part she played in why there is a distance between them.
 

4. We don’t know what goes on behind closed doors and the boys have stayed constant in their desire to NOT want to be around Britney. Something clearly happened that made them extremely uncomfortable. Kids aren’t just going to want to permanently stay away from a parent unless there was significant damage and trauma. 
 

Check yourself before you put all the blame on her kids. They are victims in this situation. 

Wow thank you for saying all of this, to me this is a very insightful post. I agree with every word. 

[i sometimes sing live]

2 minutes ago, whenthedogscaneout said:

Hmm… you almost sound personally involved. 

You could literally say the same exact thing about everyone else in this thread calling her sons names, so what's your point? At the end of the day, we're all outsiders looking in, and the truth is often somewhere in the middle. It's clear as day Britney has issues. While we don't know the extent of it, something could easily have gone down that stopped them from wanting to see her. We're all making guesses here, but some people need to look past their own bias and the image of Britney they have in their head.

[HairFlipQueen]

5 minutes ago, i sometimes sing live said:

You could literally say the same exact thing about everyone else in this thread calling her sons names, so what's your point? At the end of the day, we're all outsiders looking in, and the truth is often somewhere in the middle. It's clear as day Britney has issues. While we don't know the extent of it, something could easily have gone down that stopped them from wanting to see her. We're all making guesses here, but some people need to look past their own bias and the image of Britney they have in their head.

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[KatieKat]

All the comments on here are taking this post very seriously …. But the video is funny.

She might have been just sort of complaining about teen selfishness in a light hearted way 

[whenthedogscaneout]

16 minutes ago, i sometimes sing live said:

You could literally say the same exact thing about everyone else in this thread calling her sons names, so what's your point? At the end of the day, we're all outsiders looking in, and the truth is often somewhere in the middle. It's clear as day Britney has issues. While we don't know the extent of it, something could easily have gone down that stopped them from wanting to see her. We're all making guesses here, but some people need to look past their own bias and the image of Britney they have in their head.

I already pointed out I don’t think it’s right to discuss this family stuff on instagram.

But I also don’t think it’s fair to look at her current situation after many years of abuse and then draw conclusions about their entire relationship. The oldest is 18. She never called any of them out until they sold her out on television with their dad and even then she deleted it. 

Not sure what triggered this one, but I would imagine it doesn’t feel amazing to have no human rights for 14 years just for the sake of occasionally seeing your kids (as you pay for their new lives with their dad and his trashy wife - that they respect more than you because you’ve been labeled as “crazy” from the start)… and then finally gain freedom only for them to ignore you, sell you out on television and leave the state. 

Ps it wouldn’t shock me if her son finally called her up after a very long time, she got excited, started opening up and feeling good, and then he somehow brought up that he needed money.

As for the user I replied to - they seemed personally invested… pointing out “parental narcissism” and other harsh words, declaring they are the victims while also saying none of us know anything… sounds kinda personal to me. 

Edited October 13, 2023 by whenthedogscaneout

[Chaoticluv]

Im sorry but who returns gifts ? Especially if they took the time and thought to give you something. I would never 

[Switchy]

Her anger/ frustration in this post makes sense with the news of Kevin shopping around an interview with their sons as a package deal. I'd be pissed too! People expect her to take the high road and continue to let her ex, his wife, and her kids talk **** about her when they haven't seen her in years.

Edited October 13, 2023 by Switchy
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[Red Wine Supernova]

2 hours ago, Lola2790 said:

The video was low-key funny  

Me as a parent

[amiro1989]

55 minutes ago, Chucky said:

Yes, Britney, keep dragging your kids publicly for doing what every bratty teenager who doesn’t know any better has done at one point. I’m sure that will do wonders for your relationship with them. 

I honestly agree with this. I understand Britney feels the need to express herself, but this will only sour her relationship more and more with her kids.

I know I'd be mad as hell if my mom had millions of followers and shared passive aggressive stories like these to her audience. Is it selfish? Totally... But they're teenagers/young adults, it's what it is. 

[Bboy1988]

Not surprised. #trash 

[EduardoFoster]

2 hours ago, Kaitlyn Johnson said:

I wish she would take the high road. They’re her kids, not some randoms. 

Ok K-Fed, you can log off now.

[GmailMyHeart]

I was with her until she said payback.  
 

they were kids for sakes.  Get them away from their Dad and then maybe she’d have a fair shot at having a relationship with them but attacking them on am ain’t it. 
 

It’s becoming clear the kids were pawns used by the adults and it’s sick and disgusting.  

[Kaitlyn Johnson]

4 minutes ago, EduardoFoster said:

Ok K-Fed, you can log off now.

Nah Eduardo, I’m good. I work for a living so if you’re going to try to be snarky, please try to make it clever at least. 

[joe sp]

So sad but they'll be back as soon as they're poor (a couple of months)

[Elle90s]

Welcome to motherhood. That’s what teenagers do. They prefer to hang with their friends than parents. Gifts and money does not buy happiness or love.