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Sheesh what a way to end 2020!

Well not for nothing but Roxxy gets pissed off real fast and even when you throw facts at her, she gets super defensive. She hates being wrong. She will get nasty with you and will make it a goal to make you look like the bad guy and her the victim. And I'm sure if you DM her she will get even more vicious. If that's how she acts publicly on a forum, imagine how she is in a DM! Even if the guy kept bringing up his bipolar... Point is she had absolutely no right to tell him to go die. Shame on her! It could get annoying, sure, but to say that? Is she for real? What happened to just saying, "Can you please stop bringing it up?" She clearly has issues. How is someone who's that unstable allowed to be a mod???? That's like letting an arsonist become a firefighter!! Does it make any sense??? Screw her.

Thanks for considering it. I only think that maybe sometimes if we DM them and ask what is going on, it could be fixed. Yeah, some stuff I do understand you have no choice but to give warning points right there on the spot. But certain other stuff, or even just a mod arguing with a user, or 2 users arguing, the mod should step in and say, "Hey, let's cool it for a sec. Okay, what's going on? Let's hear your side." and hear the other side too and come up with a resolution. I've seen A LOT of exhalers argue with mods and I don't blame them. Several just think no matter what they're always right. No ifs ands or buts. They even go about insulting them publicly. It just leaves us exhalers to disrespect them even more. But sometimes if the mod just says," OK lemme DM you. Let's do this privately and find a solution. The other exhalers shouldn't see this argument and think bad of you or me, a mod."

Sounds like Roxxy is Toxxy (toxic).... So why is she a moderator? I'm sorry, but who the hell has any right to tell someone to go die? Let's say she did absolutely nothing wrong.... And that other guy really is guilty. She still has no right to say that. How she continued doing this role after that claim baffles my mind. Wow. Sounds like she's got some inner demons inside that she's gotta deal with first. Maybe get off exhale and go seek therapy? Until she's in a good place and NOT bring ppl down, it sounds like she's only gonna keep doing it.

Do you think it'd be a good idea for moderators to actually MODERATE before giving warning points or doing something downright outrageous like telling someone to die cuz of a condition they have? Idk man, I think maybe sending a DM to try and calm them down could be the first step. And they can prob communicate with the user to figure out what it is that's setting them off. An explanation usually clears everything up. THEN if you see it happen again you give them warning points? At least it'll give us regular folks a chance to take a step back and explain everything before things escalate. Sometimes our POV may not make sense to the mods. Or sometimes their POV won't make sense to us. Don't you think it's a better idea to DM privately and try and clear it up before things get worse?

Jeezuz who would stoop so low and be that horrible to say that???

I think I have been solid but yeah, I'm OK with friendly reminders. But I can't sit back and say the moderators on here have been saints. I've seen a lot of snarky remarks and I think it's also best that they remember they aren't superior to us. Reminder to moderators: DM the user if you see an issue that's possibly beginning to boil. And do it politely. I promise you that kindness will go a long way.

I tried to be as polite as possible so I hope this wasn't perceived as a negative thing where @Slayer thought I was dissing them. I see the negativity too but I just say "Ah, whatever." cuz what am I gonna do? Wring their neck and say, "It says be respectful!!! Stop posting negativity!!", I can't. That's impossible. But it also shows the opinions people have about certain topics and people, etc. Let them. Sometimes a difference in opinion raises questions and makes you think even more. If you've never seen 12 Angry Men, it's just like this. 11 men sealed the fate of a young kid (Guilty) and 1 guy said Not Guilty and insisted the kid was innocent. The men went back and forth but once the Not Guilty guy explained his reasoning, it made sense to the other 11 men. It's the same w this. Just hear out the reasons why someone opposes something. Maybe the reasons they have are indeed good reasons. But you can't control their thoughts and opinions and certainly can't control their actions behind a keyboard. They're gonna do it whether you like it or not. Just be respectful and ask "Well why do you think this?".... I assure you, questions asked will only broaden your knowledge

You aren't gonna be able to control their thoughts or feelings, so leave it. I get it bothers you, but they DO have the right to express what they feel. Just scroll on by. There's nothing else you can do to change someone's views or opinions on certdin things.

So what must one do to get this job? Cuz I can do a better job than her

Ur right. He's her chef. He can only do so many jobs. Bf, handler, fitness trainer, actor, model, chef.... He can't do this. Haha

Seriously asking, if she's "dating" Sam, who's a "fitness trainer"..... Why would she hire a personal trainer? Wouldn't it make sense to take advantage of his skill and have him train her?

Correct, no access to a personal phone due to the fear of who she may call/text and fear of using social media to speak out as well as searching online to find out what everyone is uncovering about them. Jodi is now her conservatkr but I think regardless of that, her father is still in the picture and involved, so I think because he still plays some sort of role as a conservator.... She can't do anything until he is 100% out. I belkeve she hasn't requested to terminate because look at what her father keeps doing. He keeps fighting back, hiring mkre lawyers (with HER money) and objecting. It'll be difficult for her to terminate if he keeps fighting. Additionally, her father is easily able to twist stories & words to mKe her look unstable because "who better than her own parent"... A simple exchanging of words & papers tossed on the table due to frustration (for example) to him can be depicted as a full blown attack & fight with objects thrown across the room. He can make something small into something as big as that and tell it to the judge. Whereas once he's removed, she has 3rd party individuals reviewing her case & finances and able to report back to the judge without being bias. Jodi can say "Britney was upset, she expressed her frustration, the papers given to her were tossed a few inches away but that was it" See how the same thing can be said 2 different ways? An outsider won't exaggerate as much as Jamie would all for the sole purpose of staying in power.

In no way am I backing up Judge Penny, but I think it's possible she may do it in December. She can't just suddenly give the entire estate to Bessemer and it be a sudden 180. I think once Bessemer wets their feet and get everything they need, within 1 month they'll already have everything and know what to do... Therefore that's when Penny will say, "Arite, Chamako (boy), out you go." It's probably gonna happen slowly so both sides get a little bit of everything instead of it happening suddenly & things getting ugly for one side. At least Bessemer is Co-conservator. Let's be happy about that and relieved that they were granted this role. At least a professional company is in charge of her estate and not some 60 ur old who has no idea what to do with millions of millions of dollars.

I agree. THIS date is the smoking gun (I believe) and the fact they are desperately fighting to keep it a secret makes it even more suspicious.