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Hey everyone Please read it all. So I’m here to ask older members for advice on a few things (not just older members, I understand almost everyone else my age and even younger are already more experienced)... So I’m 21 and bi***ual, still virgin although I’ve had a few girlfriends from ages 12-16 and never a boyfriend because, if I’m honest, I’ve never had the courage to get one. I have so many big dreams and I’ve always said I’d just focus on that but I must confess I’m now starting to feel too lonely. I think it’s the social anxiety that built up in my teenage years, the few friends I have I sometimes give short answers and run from any social events (I did it today). I’m a pretty cool guy, the cool and popular hot straight boys from HS often wanted to be friends with me and I just turned them away (not rudely, but I would distance myself slowly) and no one really suspects I’m bi even tho I lowkey find guys more attractive I’m open to a girlfriend or boyfriend, tho I kinda wanna experiment with a boyfriend and I kinda wanted someone good looking and in my age range 21-25 something that would last at least a few months at least and someone who isn’t openly bi so I never run the risk of him outting me. I’m terrified of getting on dating apps otherwise my little secret could be out if someone spots me This is getting too big, so guys what would you suggest for a 21 year old in UK to do/go to get in a relationship. I’m also innocent/dumb to the point of not getting clues sometimes and being terrified of dropping a hint to a guy cause imagine he’s 100% straight and outs me? I’m sure a lot of you guys have been there. It’s just hard to start when I’ve always been the pretty straight boy in HS that would be mean (NOT bully, I’ve never bullied anyone) but I was the guy to be mean to any boy that tried making a move cause back then I could never see myself being in a (hidden) relationship. Like how do I drop hints? Thank you all for readin it and pls provide your bro some tips and I will read everything and be eternally grateful