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Hi all (or to the few who venture to General). If you feel comfortable sharing, let's have some fun and drag our ex partners talk relationships. I am single and have been for almost two years. I was with my ex for six years. Neither of us cheated, that I know of, and we simply drifted apart. The last year or so of the relationship we were more friends than lovers. Now we're neither. Although it's been an adjustment, I must say I am enjoying the single life and judging the gays on grindr. So, what's your story? Single? Loved up? What quality do you admire most in your partner(s)? Let's share.

Hi y'all! I want us to know better So I was wondering what you think about love/s.e.x. relationships... Are you in a love relationship? how long? do you believe in free love relationships? polyamorous relationships?? if not, what you looking for? I'm single as f, and I'd love to be in a relationship, monogamic but with a healthy outcome: not jelaosy, let the other person do his/their thing always respecting me, and with trust and communication, and viceversa.

Is monogamy the way to go? What’s your stance on non-tradional relationships like poly couples, open marriages, swinging, etc? Do these practices vibe with your moral compass? Have you or would you give one a try? Share your story fam.

I have been looking for someone to love since I was 14. Since I was 14! This is getting old. I’m 24 now and it feels like I will never find love. I see all my friends get in and out of relationships all the time. They find them so quickly. I’ve been in a few relationships as well, but usually I run away before it gets too heavy. I just decide I don’t like the guy or the way he treated me so I dip. This was true except for last year. I dated this immaculate 40 year old with a body like a Greek god for 9 months and it was the most torturous 9 months of my life. That experience changed me forever but that’s not the topic at hand. I just feel like maybe I am destined to be alone otherwise. Why is it so hard for me? I go on a lot of dates but usually I’m just not interested in these guys when I meet them (and don’t say I am asexual cuz I’m not, I hook up a lot). I just want to feel that magical feeling when I meet this guy - it’s love at first sight - you know what I mean? I know what that feels like and I know that it is far and few in between. I got so much plastic surgery and now the only guys that come after me are ones I was never interested in to start with. It feels like running a race I will never win.