When Ellen came out, her first public relationship was with Anne Heche, people didn't know why they broke up (Anne went to a guy), Ellen sadly became the bitter ex..
And Anne was blacklisted from her Hollywood, due to regular promo going to Ellen, being banned on her show and even her name, Ellen made sure Her ex was unsuccessful to secure work as an actress.
According to Anne, the reason why they broke up was basically two different principles in life, Ellen wanted to rule the world, become the face of the gay community especially lesbians (sadly she did), and become a gazillionaire..
Anne just wanted love and not the ego trip.
She pokes fun at her current wife, Cos anne said she was driving a Porsche and now she's married to a Portia (Referencing her wife Portia De Rossi)..
Anne feels safer knowing she's going back to Africa with the gorillas where she belongs.