I'm simply saying I don't give an F that he's in the hospital. If he'd had a chance to put me in one with malice intent, then he sure as heck would have. Just for being gay, I might add. You sound dumb defending this person to gay people. And I know not everyone in here is gay but does that mean I have to make excuses for a violent person? No. Does that mean I have to save room for emotion just cause some heteros looked up to him? No. So take your empathy elsewhere. I'm not having it. I know people are homophobic and I'm not shedding crocodile tears for them either. If you had the chance to hold a vigil for Pat Robertson or Fred Phelps, would you have then, too? You can't save everyone.