Britney can be criticized without being mocked

[dulcaewm]

Britney Spears has been through hell and the least she could expect from her own fans is continued compassion for her as she navigates this new chapter of her life. Britney’s life is unique, messy, and on full display in excruciating detail. She has made mistakes and will continue to do so. That does not mean that she doesn’t deserve basic respect and understanding. She is in a ton of pain. And no, it’s not largely her fault.

 

 She owes us nothing.

Edited September 20 by dulcaewm

[easy]

[Hot pink]

Well said

[Asajka]

I agree with you 100% ! She's a human just like  all of us and she can make mistakes. 

We all make mistakes... 

She deserves respect in making her own decisions and it's not our place to judge.

[Maria962]

16 minutes ago, dulcaewm said:

Britney Spears has been through hell and the least she could expect from her own fans is continued compassion for her as she navigates this new chapter of her life. Britney’s life is unique, messy, and on full display in excruciating detail. She has made mistakes and will continue to do so. That does not mean that she doesn’t deserve basic respect and understanding. She is in a ton of pain. And no, it’s not largely her fault.

 

 She owes us nothing.

I understand what you're saying, it's just that as fans we can't become enablers because unfortunately that wouldn't be good for her either. Lately it feels like Britney isn't making an effort to think beyond herself, she's too stubborn and can't/won't see things for herself what she's doing, she says, the people in her life she's losing, the reputation she helps stabilize... it's worrying to think that she no longer seems to care about anything or anyone. Such as being mentally well, her relationship with her children and her marriage to Sam, which everything seems to indicate ended due to her behavior, but she would be incapable of admitting guilt for the above and on the contrary, she most likely thinks that it wasn't like this and will be pointing at everyone except her... As a fan it's not about saying "yasssss" to everything she says or does with her life when it's clearly evident that it's not right and is not beneficial for her 

[HearMeOnYourRadio]

I feel like most of the hatefulness comes from something that goes beyond Britney ands stems from peoples own feelings of inferiority in the world.  

[MrsShesTooBig]

20 minutes ago, Maria962 said:

I understand what you're saying, it's just that as fans we can't become enablers because unfortunately that wouldn't be good for her either. Lately it feels like Britney isn't making an effort to think beyond herself, she's too stubborn and can't/won't see things for herself what she's doing, she says, the people in her life she's losing, the reputation she helps stabilize... it's worrying to think that she no longer seems to care about anything or anyone. Such as being mentally well, her relationship with her children and her marriage to Sam, which everything seems to indicate ended due to her behavior, but she would be incapable of admitting guilt for the above and on the contrary, she most likely thinks that it wasn't like this and will be pointing at everyone except her... As a fan it's not about saying "yasssss" to everything she says or does with her life when it's clearly evident that it's not right and is not beneficial for her 

But how do you know that Britney isn’t “thinking beyond herself”? None of us live with her and whatever actions we know are just through tabloids that are written. We don’t know what her day to day is like, so we should stop making these definitive statements such as the above and presenting it as fact that’s what she’s doing.
 

Lastly, no one where is “yasssing” anything she’s done, so I’m a bit tired of this excuse. No, we should not infantilize her, but also tearing her down for any minor offense doesn’t help things either. 

Edited September 20 by Gutterguppy2.0

[PrimeBritney]

your boyfriend is preventing Britney from releasing what she wants in her book

Edited September 20 by PrimeBritney

[dulcaewm]

13 minutes ago, Maria962 said:

I understand what you're saying, it's just that as fans we can't become enablers because unfortunately that wouldn't be good for her either. Lately it feels like Britney isn't making an effort to think beyond herself, she's too stubborn and can't/won't see things for herself what she's doing, she says, the people in her life she's losing, the reputation she helps stabilize... it's worrying to think that she no longer seems to care about anything or anyone. Such as being mentally well, her relationship with her children and her marriage to Sam, which everything seems to indicate ended due to her behavior, but she would be incapable of admitting guilt for the above and on the contrary, she most likely thinks that it wasn't like this and will be pointing at everyone except her... As a fan it's not about saying "yasssss" to everything she says or does with her life when it's clearly evident that it's not right and is not beneficial for her 

I’ve never shied away from pointing out Britney’s flaws or missteps, but I’ve noticed her being mocked and insulted recently, which is why I’m saying something.

Sam is irrelevant because he is trash and always has been, and Britney is mad at primarily Jayden for putting their business out into the world on 60 minutes Australia (Sean Preston didn’t speak in the interview). That was a betrayal from Britney’s perspective. She needs an apology from them.

Britney’s mental struggles aren’t her fault and are a lot to deal with for one person. She’s going to need a lot of patience as she heals instead of being accused of being bitter, especially until she regains a support system of people who actually care about her wellbeing.

[Jup1ter]

I can’t wait for the pity party to be over, it’s so hard to be a fan now, I can’t for 2024, I want the book and the drama TO BE OVER,

this is worst than 2005-2006 when she was called white trash EVERYDAY in the media

[G.E]

I am honestly surprised with how much hate she has been getting on here. I love Britney, but the past 1-2 years have been weird for me to understand her. I don't feel like I connect much with her, I listen to her music, but to her as a person I don't feel as connected to her as before, if that makes sense. Ive been a fan since she first came out and still am. I don't agree with a lot of what she posts, writes, and some of her actions, but I don't condemn her. She is human, just like everybody else, and although I do not agree with her, its not my life, not my choices, and not my responsibility. People on here talk about “therapy” and “healing”, yet when I read a lot of the posts on here, it seems they should be worrying less about Britneys mental and emotional health, and focus more on their own. All I can say is Im grateful for the great moments she gave us and wish her peace, love, blessings and happiness. 

Edited September 20 by G.E

[canwesynchronize]

5 minutes ago, G.E said:

I am honestly surprised with how much hate she has been getting on here. I love Britney, but the past 1-2 years have been weird for me to understand her. I don't feel like I connect much with her, I listen to her music, but to her as a person I don't feel as connected to her as before, if that makes sense. Ive been a fan since she first came out and still am. I don't agree with a lot of what she posts, writes, and some of her actions, but I don't condemn her. She is human, just like everybody else, and although I do not agree with her, its not my life, not my choices, and not my responsibility. People on here talk about “therapy” and “healing”, yet when I read a lot of the posts on here, it seems they should be worrying less about Britneys mental and emotional health, and focus more on their own. All I can say is Im grateful for the great moments she gave us and wish her peace, love, blessings and happiness. 

Off topic, but damn boy you're fine.  On topic, I do agree with everything you wrote.  

[G.E]

1 minute ago, canwesynchronize said:

Off topic, but damn boy you're fine.  On topic, I do agree with everything you wrote.  

hahaha thank you!

[DiamondCircus]

16 minutes ago, G.E said:

I am honestly surprised with how much hate she has been getting on here. I love Britney, but the past 1-2 years have been weird for me to understand her. I don't feel like I connect much with her, I listen to her music, but to her as a person I don't feel as connected to her as before, if that makes sense. Ive been a fan since she first came out and still am. I don't agree with a lot of what she posts, writes, and some of her actions, but I don't condemn her. She is human, just like everybody else, and although I do not agree with her, its not my life, not my choices, and not my responsibility. People on here talk about “therapy” and “healing”, yet when I read a lot of the posts on here, it seems they should be worrying less about Britneys mental and emotional health, and focus more on their own. All I can say is Im grateful for the great moments she gave us and wish her peace, love, blessings and happiness. 

It’s comments like this that continue to push the narrative of attacking members personal lives and taking jabs at them! None of the members in this forum are Britney so using the fans as a scapegoat to keep saying they need to work on their lives to cover up Britney’s behaviors is enabling!

Britney allegedly hooking up with her convict housekeepers picking her up recently and all of her online actions are going to bring attention!

It’s like people want Brit to do and say as she pleases yet take control over the fan narrative! 

[GmailMyHeart]

27 minutes ago, dulcaewm said:

I’ve never shied away from pointing out Britney’s flaws or missteps, but I’ve noticed her being mocked and insulted recently, which is why I’m saying something.

Sam is irrelevant because he is trash and always has been, and Britney is mad at primarily Jayden for putting their business out into the world on 60 minutes Australia (Sean Preston didn’t speak in the interview). That was a betrayal from Britney’s perspective. She needs an apology from them.

Britney’s mental struggles aren’t her fault and are a lot to deal with for one person. She’s going to need a lot of patience as she heals instead of being accused of being bitter, especially until she regains a support system of people who actually care about her wellbeing.

They aren’t her fault but it’s her responsibility to heal otherwise everyone will continue to leave her.  
 

You can play the victim card for so long until people get tired of it. 

[DiamondCircus]

57 minutes ago, Maria962 said:

I understand what you're saying, it's just that as fans we can't become enablers because unfortunately that wouldn't be good for her either. Lately it feels like Britney isn't making an effort to think beyond herself, she's too stubborn and can't/won't see things for herself what she's doing, she says, the people in her life she's losing, the reputation she helps stabilize... it's worrying to think that she no longer seems to care about anything or anyone. Such as being mentally well, her relationship with her children and her marriage to Sam, which everything seems to indicate ended due to her behavior, but she would be incapable of admitting guilt for the above and on the contrary, she most likely thinks that it wasn't like this and will be pointing at everyone except her... As a fan it's not about saying "yasssss" to everything she says or does with her life when it's clearly evident that it's not right and is not beneficial for her 

Some just want to give excuses and give her a pass and enable her behavior! These people clapped and egged her on with her online bullying of X Tina and Selena Gomez and even her family! They talk about bullying yet cheer her on when she attacks and insults others!

Its almost like people pretend that nothing is the fault of Brits and that it’s everyone else that’s the issue!

[GmailMyHeart]

21 minutes ago, G.E said:

I am honestly surprised with how much hate she has been getting on here. I love Britney, but the past 1-2 years have been weird for me to understand her. I don't feel like I connect much with her, I listen to her music, but to her as a person I don't feel as connected to her as before, if that makes sense. Ive been a fan since she first came out and still am. I don't agree with a lot of what she posts, writes, and some of her actions, but I don't condemn her. She is human, just like everybody else, and although I do not agree with her, its not my life, not my choices, and not my responsibility. People on here talk about “therapy” and “healing”, yet when I read a lot of the posts on here, it seems they should be worrying less about Britneys mental and emotional health, and focus more on their own. All I can say is Im grateful for the great moments she gave us and wish her peace, love, blessings and happiness. 

I can’t speak for others but I myself am healing through weekly therapy which is why I know how much work it really takes to get over trauma.  
 

it’s hard to ignore tbh.  
 

And ranting on IG is not a substitute for therapy.  

[DiamondCircus]

It’s almost the same way fans enabled scams TMZ behavior making up excuses for him over and over, now that the truth is out and he wants her money they act as if they weren’t team Scam!

Edited September 20 by DiamondCircus

[G.E]

3 minutes ago, DiamondCircus said:

It’s comments like this that continue to push the narrative of attacking members personal lives and taking jabs at them! None of the members in this forum are Britney so using the fans as a scapegoat to keep saying they need to work on their lives to cover up Britney’s behaviors is enabling!

Britney allegedly hooking up with her convict housekeepers picking her up recently and all of her online actions are going to bring attention!

It’s like people want Brit to do and say as she pleases yet take control over the fan narrative! 

Sure, because its so healthy to tear a person apart, which should be none of our business what she does or doesn't do.As I mentioned, in my post:  I don't agree with a lot of what she posts, writes, and some of her actions, but I don't condemn her. She is human, just like everybody else, and although I do not agree with her, its not my life, not my choices, and not my responsibility, and neither is it yours or anyone on here. 

[DiamondCircus]

2 minutes ago, G.E said:

Sure, because its so healthy to tear a person apart, which should be none of our business what she does or doesn't do.As I mentioned, in my post:  I don't agree with a lot of what she posts, writes, and some of her actions, but I don't condemn her. She is human, just like everybody else, and although I do not agree with her, its not my life, not my choices, and not my responsibility, and neither is it yours or anyone on here. 

Sure because it’s so healthy to mock religions and insult fast food workers or attack people that may say hello or online bully others! Stop with the human card if that card doesn’t apply to members of the forum as well! And another thing nobody saying it’s peoples responsibilities on here. This is a damn forum. When are people gonna get used to the fact that topics are going to be talked about and discuss when it comes to Britney that’s what we’re all here for to talk about the headlines.

Edited September 20 by DiamondCircus