Dear Britney,

[lcortes88]

Dear Britney, 

You do as you wish it's your life! As a concerned fan, I see your pain. The fact that you still talk about how you were treated and post angry posts  means you have not healed and it hurts me as a fan to witness your pain. Please don't hold your grudge against your family for too long. You don't have to talk to them, but please don't hold on to the pain for too long. What they did was horrible, so distance yourself as much as you want,  but please understand that holding on to a grudge only furthers your self harm. I am not telling you what to do, simply take your time to heal and I wish you the best and if you want to stop being in the entertainment industry that is ok as well, maybe stop posting on social media? But again do as you wish. 

Sincerely, 

A caring Fan 

[easy]

you want her to take her time to heal yet you're concerned because she's still not healed 🥴 she's not "holding a grudge against her family" she's holding her abusers accountable for their actions. this woman was abused and tormented for 13 years, she is healing and it won't be pretty. 

[that's hot y'all]

[RedCarpet]

4 minutes ago, lcortes88 said:

Dear Britney, 

Please don't hold your grudge against your family for too long.

why not,? they treated her like ****, she's entitled to hold that grudge 

[lcortes88]

Just now, that's hot y'all said:

lol welp that a reponse. thank you for not being mean 

[lcortes88]

Just now, RedCarpet said:

why not,? they treated her like ****, she's entitled to hold that grudge 

She can do whatever she wants. I just mean I hope you don't hold a grudge for to long because holding grudges only hurts one self. 

[that's hot y'all]

1 minute ago, lcortes88 said:

lol welp that a reponse. thank you for not being mean 

[lcortes88]

1 minute ago, that's hot y'all said:

lol love the randomness very britney lol

[Endlessstan]

9 minutes ago, lcortes88 said:

Dear Britney, 

You do as you wish it's your life! As a concerned fan, I see your pain. The fact that you still talk about how you were treated and post angry posts  means you have not healed and it hurts me as a fan to witness your pain. Please don't hold your grudge against your family for too long. You don't have to talk to them, but please don't hold on to the pain for too long. What they did was horrible, so distance yourself as much as you want,  but please understand that holding on to a grudge only furthers your self harm. I am not telling you what to do, simply take your time to heal and I wish you the best and if you want to stop being in the entertainment industry that is ok as well, maybe stop posting on social media? But again do as you wish. 

Sincerely, 

A caring Fan 

Her family engaged in human trafficking sanctioned by the state of California. Her family needs to be arrested and charged with human trafficking and she deserves a huge settlement (at least 600 million) from the state to rectify her financial and emotional suffering. That would be the MINIMUM restitution she deserves. 
 

I wouldn’t be able to move on if I was a victim of some handmaid’s tale style human trafficking scheme that the entire world witnessed and abided for over a decade. 

[lcortes88]

Just now, Endlessstan said:

Her family engaged in human trafficking sanctioned by the state of California. Her family needs to be arrested and charged with human trafficking and she deserves a huge settlement (at least 600 million) from the state to rectify her financial and emotional suffering. That would be the MINIMUM restitution she deserves. 
 

I wouldn’t be able to move on if I was a victim of some handmaid’s tale style human trafficking scheme that the entire world witnessed and abided for over a decade. 

She has a right to do all that. I just hope she does not hold on to the grudge forever. Truly wish her happiness. And she wants to disappear and never perform again and let her legacy die that is ok just as long as she is happy. 

[Heitorzinho]

Why we feel the need to say something while she's still IN THE MIDDLE of her OWN process of healing? It doesn't seem fair, I'm sorry.

Your intentions seems right, which is good... but we should be focusing (in my opinion) in manifest good energy and good vibes to her, than project what we think about the situation.

[Joel Santos]

I don't understand how some people think rage spikes on Instagram have anything to do with the healing process. In my opinion, reliving the horror that was done to her every day will only feed the trauma she carries to the point of becoming bigger than her. If all this exposure did her any good, she would be a new woman. But it's obvious that she's still angry at everyone, including people who have nothing to do with the nightmare she's lived through for the last 13 years.

[GlitterRain]

Who are you to give her life advice or suggestions on what to do with hers? 

[jordeezy river red]

 

[everybodygoesdown]

“I’m not telling you what to do … but don’t do that, do as I say” 

[Jsken]

People are going to drag you for this, but I think your post is well intended. It's healthy for victims of abuse to let go of their anger--eventually! Abusers are not owed forgiveness, but it can help a traumatized person find peace when they let go of the anger. 

But as fans who want to see Britney heal, I think we should remember that healing from trauma is a process that takes a long time. Anger is part of healthy stages of grief, and someone who was trafficked for 13 years is obviously going to be angry and grieving the immense loss of control over such a long period of their life. 

I also think that people should process grief and trauma in whatever ways work for them as long as it isn't hurting anyone. Britney's instagram posts simply don't hurt anyone (except maybe her family, but that's the consequences of their own actions). If anything her posts can help other people who are healing from trauma see that they are not alone and that they can survive and thrive like Britney. So she should post on social media all that she wants since it's something that seems to help her express her feelings and feel in control of her life again. 

[everybodygoesdown]

Just now, everybodygoesdown said:

“I’m not telling you what to do … but don’t do that, do as I say” 

Unless you are her shrink and she asked for your advice you have no business telling her that.

[Buffie]

gtfo Jamie lynn

[TakeYourHand]

You're right but unfortunately fans view this only from a fan perspective and fail to understand there's a bigger picture and more to the story. I just hope Brit has enough of a genuine support system around her because it's too easy to be influenced when you're that vulnerable. Her family is In pain and unfortunately don't have the tools to help her or be supportive. It's just sad because I do think her Mom cares. I wish the fans could just leave her be for a while so she can properly heal without the distraction and influence of people who don't know her. She needs time. Social media is not helping at all. It's being used as a tool for validation that she needs from real supportive people who know her. Im not on Bryan's side but when he said the women in his family are stubborn it's true in the case of her posing nude for social media. It's not a problem that she's posting that, but moreso the circumstances around it. That's why it's not questioned when Kim K does it. The bigger message is that Brits in pain and she's rebellious and everyone can read that but fans focus more on justifying every effing thing she does good or bad and that's unhealthy and NOT helping her. I wish Sam would step up as a husband and help her because she's crying for help. Also I'm a massive fan of her so if you choose to come for me FU in advanced. I want the best for her.

[blackingouthenegativity]

Dear Icortes88,

Britney Spears does not have to resolve decades of trauma and abuse on a timeline that makes YOU feel better. If you want to change how YOU feel, focus on what you change within your own life.

Sincerely,

A caring Exhaler