Are you flamboyant or masculine?

[PaMisMuchachas]

I stan Britney and Christina what the f do you think?! 

[acevedomolina]

I'm just a ***

[Adriannn]

I’m more in the masc side. 
A ho anthem might switch me though 

All in all, masc side with certain fem traits showing up from time to time 

[Spicechinodiva]

Flamboyant, I have the representation all on tv out of all the gay men ever. 

[GlitterRain]

1 hour ago, sparrowhawk said:

masc when i top, fem when i bottom. 

[cocodeluxe]

When it comes to this, do gays actually mean our interests or behaviour? Is it a mix?  I never got it 100%

 

[super.nova]

i would say im very masculine; but i have no problem being feminine, but its more of a game / play / act when im trying to have fun.

my normal mannerisms, expression, clothes, voice, etc. is very masculine when im not paying attention... like its my default. i don't know if that makes sense. masculinity comes natural to me, femininity is an emulation for me.

but when i'm with my close gay friends we all joke around and are like, girl whats up. or we call each other with feminine pronouns, but being playful.

i don't wear makeup, or like use lotions, or a lot of that, i don't even brush my hair too much, have a thick beard, etc. and i wear no deodorant (it's fine i don't smell and i shower twice a day everyday) because im kinda into that whole musk / manly / hairy vibe... yet my clothes are fancy / designer / light colors / nice but i usually wear cargo / oversize... i basically look like a straight metro***ual daddy. and in the bedroom i am more of masculine expression / aggressive / dominant, and a top. im also super hairy everywhere, muscular but not with a low body fat. so i'm thick.

i don't mind feminine guys at all, i think they're hot. but when it comes to s** i like masculine guys more, but it sometimes turns me on to abuse a feminine twink lol - with consent. i think what turns me on the most is when someone feels comfortable in their skin. i think i love more when people are nice - rather than feminine or masculine - makes sense?

but yes, being super feminine with my friends its fun. like we don't mind playing with wigs and wearing heels and dancing when im with my besties having drinks at their pool etc. but more as a "costume" fun activity. also, i've had 3 boyfriends and they are all so super surprised that i am so obsessed with britney and know some of the choreo of her iconic videos and cry so easily / are super emotional / sensitive. my last ex called me a soft top lol.

this is a fun topic, supper interesting to read everyone else's way of expression. love this community.

[RadicalOptimism]

I’m a conservative gay (not in politics) but I’m very subtle. I think it’s from years of being ashamed and trying to repress being “overtly gay.” I mean I have my feminine qualities, but at the end of the day does it really matter? Masc/Fem who gives a ****? 

[SouthernOreo]

6 hours ago, Zach F said:

I lean towards masculine but I do have a feminine side that comes out when it needs to. 

Same, tbh. In my day to day life, I'm masculine. When music comes into the picture, depending on the song, I can get real mascuqueen haha. 

[conceptuel]

I’m a girl and i’m very feminine outside but masculine inside 

Which basically means that my hobbies are not really girly (besides pop culture): I like soccer, cars and surfing, yet I enjoy spending hours to select an outfit for racing  and putting my makeup on 

 

Btw I think there’s no correlation between ***ual orientation and being masculine-feminine. GenZ is also much more "neutral" regarding gender than their older counterparts. In a few years I’m sure that nail art for men will be viewed as normal just like women wearing pants were considered as trans 50 years ago lol

 

[DjRobney]

I'm whatever you want me to be, just do me

[GlitterRain]

Just now, DjRobney said:

I'm whatever you want me to be, just do me

[BUWYGF]

Quite masc ngl. I generally don't have the whole machoism idea, never did, my parents didnt bring me up that way, but I am generally quite masc. Gays dig it

[jordeezy river red]

Depends on my mood. 

[jordeezy river red]

It's weird...I grew up in a religious household but I was talking about it with my mom...I have seen my straight brother in a dress more times than I have seen my mom in a dress lol 

[ExhaleSpamBot]

Masc. I do have both traits tho. 

 

[Abdul]

Masc but I think all gay men had flamboyant in them  

[ExXL]

I'm probably more feminine than masculine..... I really like laughing and being expressively alive which often seems/feels like a sin in the alpha male bible , but generally when I'm around strangers I'm naturally more masculine (distant, and quiet) while with friends I'm more feminine ..... 

 

 

 

[ExXL]

40 minutes ago, jordeezy said:

It's weird...I grew up in a religious household but I was talking about it with my mom...I have seen my straight brother in a dress more times than I have seen my mom in a dress lol 

Yeah it's not always a gay thing, for example my brother is straight, he likes all music genres (almost) including pop sometimes he's singing out loud in the car next to his gf 🤣

[pieceofphil]

I don't really consider myself fem or masc rather avoid being read gay first before someone knows me. Guess it's a coping mechanism.