Have you ever had a fight with a friend?

[Jup1ter]

How was it, serious or light? where is them in your life after that now 

Do you have jealous friends? 

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I don't have childhood friends, I don't live in their city anymore since I was 9, but I met two of them in 2016 bc I had to travel to that city and they were at the wedding I was attending, they were my best friends as a child, it was so cool seeing them but we don't regular or ever talk in social media

AND the high school friends I have they live in another state as well, but once in awhile we travel to get together, we're 5 or 6 friends, love them! one is pregnant now, another one have a 1 year old little girl so cut, the other girl have a 5 years old son I guess, h's a rockstar and play guitar like his grandpa.

The friends I have where I live right now I'm loyal to them like from more than 10 years ago, we hang out a lot on the weekends, but something happened in January 2020 that I wasn't cool about it and maturity happens and you try to make changes, we fell apart a little bit,

I feel like that bonding is not the same i was hurt it was the first time it was hard to forgive someone but I guess I did it now, i don't know, I was always happy and proud of myself of letting go resentment but this time I was hurthurt, but I'm cool now when I don't remember, i guess if covid didn't happen I wouldn't even remember now bc I would be living more and more things in the rhythm I was with life... I'm not sure but since this is subject yeah, I'm a still a little bit hurt with two friends, and I'm also not in touch with a really close bff friend anymore, she started dating someone and we fell apart like in 2018, but my god i love her once in awhile we chat but there's nothing to gossip it's not intense like it was... when we about to be 30 this **** changes,

there's a graphic I saw the other day and i agree, friends are like that, sometimes we are closer, very close, hang out and talk a lot but there will be times you'll not be so close with your best friend but maturity have to let you both know it's not hard feelings it's just growing up and living life... there will be times to stay close again (or not lol) and your close friends will change and you'll be most likely be closer to someone from work, from someone you do business together, politic views or about kids, life.

[ChrisBritSlo]

General called and wants Its thread back

[ChrisBritSlo]

Not me expecting It's a thread about new Britney post dragging Jansen

[Henry.]

Yeah we had a fight and that's how it ended  

[cubasterd]

Yea. I was a bad friend because I got tired of the responsibility of being a friend. I pushed away both of my childhood bestfriends because I didn't want to deal with them anymore. The first one was at 15years old. I moved to a different part of town and I got tired of putting up with his ADHD-ness. When I was 18, I cut off my other bestfriend because he sided with my mom even though I hated her at the time and he became tio problematic in his own personal life. His mom died like a year later and, though I expressed sympathy, I did not make time for him in my life. I just wanted to be alone had he too much going on. I still feel bad for the way I handled both of those friendships.

[Jup1ter]

13 minutes ago, cubasterd said:

Yea. I was a bad friend because I got tired of the responsibility of being a friend. I pushed away both of my childhood bestfriends because I didn't want to deal with them anymore. The first one was at 15years old. I moved to a different part of town and I got tired of putting up with his ADHD-ness. When I was 18, I cut off my other bestfriend because he sided with my mom even though I hated her at the time and he became tio problematic in his own personal life. His mom died like a year later and, though I expressed sympathy, I did not make time for him in my life. I just wanted to be alone had he too much going on. I still feel bad for the way I handled both of those friendships.

I guess you're on your early 20s?

It's so hard to picture still be friends with someone from when yo were like 15, actually the girl I mentioned are friends of when i was 16 and 17, but we got virtually closer again like in the 2010s year, everyone grow and lived a lot

like i said I guess a lot of people have friends from the past that disappeared and then got back together, but I told my mom I think it's weird an old friend that appears out of nowhere trying to reach out (that happened this year), I reflected about that and maybe is better to accept the love and have that chat and try to see the person than be weird about it 

[Jup1ter]

35 minutes ago, ChrisBritSlo said:

General called and wants Its thread back

YES sorry

I forgot it exists  

 

[ElectricPlatypusLove]

I'm like Britney, I hate all my "friends".

[Jup1ter]

4 minutes ago, ElectricPlatypusLove said:

I'm like Britney, I hate all my "friends".

I don't like to talk with them that much too on the phone, bc I would feel the same like uhhh enough

I rather be reading and typing **** here or in person like meet for 30 minutes at a cafe 

[GlitterRain]

I tend to pick out the worst type of friends who usually end up just using me