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I'm A Bit Annoyed With Myself (Typical "Gay Attracted By Straight Guy" Situation)

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So yeah, as said in the title, i wish my feelings and hormones would just go along with my brain for once, but i guess it's just trying to fight an already lost battle. :selenerz_selena_crying_tears_sad:

I usually tend on being quite distrustful when i met people i don't know in the first place because i don't want to give away my affection to random people, but i'm not an introvert at all aswell (i used to be when younger, not anymore). It's just part of who i am.

But when i meet somebody new for a certain period of time that apparently has really good vibes and genuine manners and starts talking to me (even with really boring topics) that's where i end up beign infatuated. ALWAYS.

It happened to me a lot in the past (before and after finding out that i was born this way) and i know for a fact these kind of situations mean 'self-distruction'. As far as i claim to be 'experienced' now...well, it's kinda happening again.

I've been meeting a handsome guy in my hometown theatre for a month: respectful, polite and always with a big smile on his face. We just started talking each other recently...so yeah, what a perfect time to begin making up fake scenarios in my head! :raven_thats_so_simone_talking_telling_preaching:

And he has a girlfriend since forever.

I honestly would like to stop with this mess always happening, lmao.

And if i sensed an ugly personality i wouldn't care less about the aesthetic, trust me.

 

So it's really nothing serious, but i just wanted to share my little story.

Did the same thing still happen to you guys or happened in the past? :gloss_mirror_young_little_girl_smile_child_makeup_lipstick_lipgloss_lips_pink:

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No Seas Cortes
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This is the thing we have to deal with, it sucks, it hurts like hell but to be fair everyone even straight people experience rejections from people they luv so I guess this is the same thing and we ar

thebritmaster
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Do you live in a town where there’s not a lot of gay people to meet? Maybe if you met some handsome gay guys with boyfriends you could try to steal them instead! Try expanding your thotting territory

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Man this hits hard lol it’s hard but we have to not. This really hits hard though 

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6 hours ago, andreafly1 said:

So yeah, as said in the title, i wish my feelings and hormones would just go along with my brain for once, but i guess it's just trying to fight an already lost battle. :selenerz_selena_crying_tears_sad:

I usually tend on beign quite distrustful when i met people i don't know in the first place because i don't want to give away my affection to random people, but i'm not an introvert at all aswell (i used to be when younger, not anymore). It's just part of who i am.

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But when i meet somebody new for a certain period of time that apparently has really good vibes and genuine manners and starts talking to me (even with really boring topics) that's where i end up beign infatuated. ALWAYS.

It happened to me a lot in the past (before and after finding out that i was born this way) and i know for a fact these kind of situations mean 'self-distruction'. As far as i claim to be 'experienced' now...well, it's kinda happening again.

I've been meeting a handsome guy in my hometown theatre for a month: respectful, polite and always with a big smile on his face. We just started talking each other recently...so yeah, what a perfect time to begin making up fake scenarios in my head! :raven_thats_so_simone_talking_telling_preaching:

And he has a girlfriend since forever.

I honestly would like to stop with this mess always happening, lmao.

And if i sensed an ugly personality i wouldn't care less about the aesthetic, trust me.

 

So it's really nothing serious, but i just wanted to share my little story.

Did the same thing still happen to you guys or happened in the past? :gloss_mirror_young_little_girl_smile_child_makeup_lipstick_lipgloss_lips_pink:

Aw I can somewhat feel your pain. 

I'm always attracted to straight men. It's no fun! 

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28 minutes ago, rennen2.0 said:

Aw I can somewhat feel your pain. 

I'm always attracted to straight men. It's no fun! 

People just find easy sometimes to point their judgy finger to you and say:

"You're not supposed to make out with straight friends! :martini_telling_talking_preaching_couch:"

HELLO?! My poor heart and guts work the same like everybody else in this world, it's not up to me!:selenerz_selena_crying_tears_sad:

As said in the main topic, this case is fortunately not that deep, but i've already been there, and real pain mixed with self-guilt emotions comes when you literally end up falling in love...that's other story. :sad_britney_ftr_for_the_record:

 

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Do you live in a town where there’s not a lot of gay people to meet? Maybe if you met some handsome gay guys with boyfriends you could try to steal them instead! Try expanding your thotting territory to a larger circumference and get those bis, closeteds & gays! :mattafact_alligator_telling_talking_chatting_preaching_green:Soon you will forget about the str8s and realize they are a big waste of time :mattafact_alligator_telling_talking_chatting_preaching_green:

 

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3 hours ago, thebritmaster said:

Do you live in a town where there’s not a lot of gay people to meet? Maybe if you met some handsome gay guys with boyfriends you could try to steal them instead! Try expanding your thotting territory to a larger circumference and get those bis, closeteds & gays! :mattafact_alligator_telling_talking_chatting_preaching_green:Soon you will forget about the str8s and realize they are a big waste of time :mattafact_alligator_telling_talking_chatting_preaching_green:

 

Not the biggest town, tbh (160k people lmao), we basically all know each other. :selenerz_selena_crying_tears_sad:

I've had 'fun times' with a couple of guys claiming they were str8...most of the people here is unfortunately closeted.

Btw yes, preach it sis! :clicktina_xtina_christina_aguilera_mouse_computer:

 

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