Shawn Mendes on Camila's look: it's giving Cher

[cillaward]

3 hours ago, Jordan Miller said:

How are the replies here internalized homophobia? 

A lot of gay men do things as children that are considered to be 'feminine' and get negative reactions from other people. It can cause them to 'de-feminize' growing up and can even lead to internalized homophobia/hetero***ism and a worshipping of masculinity within the gay community. It's been linked to prejudice from gay men against guys showing any form of femininity.

I just find it interesting how guys (gay, bi***ual or straight) can't go against the masculine stereotype without everyone labelling them a certain way (closeted, power bottom, 'pillow princess') or forcing them to 'come out'. Some of the comments here are very similar to what a lot of us experienced as teenagers from our straight peers. Ironically, this could just be Shawn being his true authentic self and instead of embracing it, we're trying to force him into a box that I'm sure we've all been forced into ourselves.

I wasn't trying to start a massive debate or cause offense, I actually just find it interesting. 

Also for the people calling me a 'woke' Gen Z...I'm 27. None of this is even new information, it dates back decades.

[CHAOTIC STYLE.]

7 minutes ago, gapeach704 said:

I'm not making fun of anyone.  I'm stating facts that A) Nicki Minaj is a struggling rapper; and B) I hope you don't have swollen balls like her cousins friend who is no longer getting married.  Once again, streaming Doja Cat is said to help alleviate swelling, anxiety, and insomnia.  Stream Planet Her 

I’m really knot the person who report other users and stuff, but since you brought @Slayerin this discussion I had to @ him and analyze your behavior. You constantly make homophobic remarks, pokes fun at mental health and derail the conversations, turning them into a disgusting aim towards the most successful female rapper and pop star of all time, Nicki Minaj. I’m pretty sure you’re time is UP! 

[Neydelinska Spearsi]

2 hours ago, Rik said:

 

 

 

 

It’s internalized homophobia because it suggests that because he is Traditionally or rather, stereotypically feminine in his commentary, he is somehow gay or should be forced to come out. It shows that even though many of you are in fact gay, you still view him as somehow in denial of his truth and therefore subordinate in a way. It might not be as advert because we are all marginalized but know your bias 

 

and to the person who litetally is telling someone to go to atrl because this is a millnnial site, you sound like an absolute ignorant person. Internalized homophobia has existed long before a 30 something year old and will remain discourse long after. And just for the record, as someone who is in fact sandwiched in between millennials and gen z, I can safely say that gen z is far more progressive and will be the change that millennials and gen z wish they had. 

Go watch some south park and learn sarcasm and try to understand jokes.

And don't essay me ever again. Put me on ignore. After all, I am an ignorant so... put me on ignore list hun.

And good luck with that essay of yours!

 

[PokemonSpears]

37 minutes ago, MikeHunt said:

No, Cher looked better

for a second I thought it was Lady Gaga the one crouching behind Camila lol 

[Slayer]

@Style. @gapeach704 you both clearly do not get on, I suggest adding each other to the 'ignore user' list.

Try your best to ignore eachother otherwise and don't stoop to levels of purposely attacking someones fave just because you know it'd bother someone, you're both above that.

[gapeach704]

6 minutes ago, Style. said:

I’m really knot the person who report other users and stuff, but since you brought @Slayerin this discussion I had to @ him and analyze your behavior. You constantly make homophobic remarks, pokes fun at mental health and derail the conversations, turning them into a disgusting aim towards the most successful female rapper and pop star of all time, Nicki Minaj. I’m pretty sure you’re time is UP! 

1) I'm gay...so your homophobic accusation is a lie 

2) I am an advocate for mental health (I stan a mental health goddess) 

3) Did you just say Nicki Minaj is the most successful female rapper and pop star of all time? 

4) You're the only one on this site that calls other users names.  I've wished you well on multiple occassions.  You're merely upset because I've continued to say that Nicki Minaj is a rapper with a fledgling career (which is a fendi fact) and you're upset. 

 

@Slayercan we please have an option to block other users from contacting us?

[Slayer]

Just now, gapeach704 said:

1) I'm gay...so your homophobic accusation is a lie

2) I am an advocate for mental health (I stan a mental health goddess)

3) Did you just say Nicki Minaj is the most successful female rapper and pop star of all time? 

4) You're the only one on this site that calls other users names.  I've wished you well on multiple occassions.  You're merely upset because I've continued to say that Nicki Minaj is a rapper with a fledgling career and you're upset.

 

@Slayercan we please have an option to block other users from contacting us?

Yes, click on the arrow on the top left hand corner where your username is and there is an option that says 'Ignored Users'.

Please both stop arguing with eachother or move it to DMs as it is ruining and derailing threads.

[gapeach704]

Just now, Slayer said:

Yes, click on the arrow on the top left hand corner where your username is and there is an option that says 'Ignored Users'.

Please both stop arguing with eachother or move it to DMs as it is ruining and derailing threads.

Thank you! I didn't know this feature existed! Finally, back to happiness and light! **goes back to streaming Jesy's song**  LYLAS!!

[Stefani]

Is it so wrong to want Shawn to be gay so that my dream of the past 3 years can come true and we can hook-up once he leaves Camila? All I want is some good Leo D.

[CHAOTIC STYLE.]

1 minute ago, Slayer said:

Yes, click on the arrow on the top left hand corner where your username is and there is an option that says 'Ignored Users'.

Please both stop arguing with eachother or move it to DMs as it is ruining and derailing threads.

He’s been tagging me in threads all day long today about Nicki Minaj. I called him out today and made several points, but I guess he’s having a mental breakdown over the fact that Nicki is made to last. Also, he’s incapable to check the facts. 
Jesus Christ, imagine this thing @gapeach704 blocking me. The heat must’ve HIT him harder than the way Roman Zolanski hit Lil Kim and Cosby B. 

[gapeach704]

1 minute ago, Style. said:

He’s been tagging me in threads all day long today about Nicki Minaj. I called him out today and made several points, but I guess he’s having a mental breakdown over the fact that Nicki is made to last. Also, he’s incapable to check the facts. 
Jesus Christ, imagine this thing @gapeach704 blocking me. The heat must’ve HIT him harder than the way Roman Zolanski hit Lil Kim and Cosby B. 

Doja Cat remains the Queen of Rap. Wishing you well!!!!

[Neydelinska Spearsi]

5 minutes ago, Stefani said:

Is it so wrong to want Shawn to be gay so that my dream of the past 3 years can come true and we can hook-up once he leaves Camila? All I want is some good Leo D.

YES! SHAME ON YOU! SHAME

 

 

jk.

[CHAOTIC STYLE.]

Just now, gapeach704 said:

Doja Cat remains the Queen of Rap. Wishing you well!!!!

@Slayer see, she said she blocka blocka bloacka me nunu 

[ExXL]

Is he cher he straight ? 

[bitbitboi]

3 hours ago, Busybee said:

Hi  your friendly neighborhood straight female here. Can someone explain to me the difference between a bottom and a power bottom im genuinely curious.  Only answer if it's within community guidelines im not trying to get anyone in trouble.

A "power bottom" is basically a dominant bottom, so he'll take charge in all the...stuff.

I like my guys submissive OK TMI.

[bitbitboi]

@Style. calm down omg 

[Korb]

2 hours ago, cillaward said:

A lot of gay men do things as children that are considered to be 'feminine' and get negative reactions from other people. It can cause them to 'de-feminize' growing up and can even lead to internalized homophobia/hetero***ism and a worshipping of masculinity within the gay community. It's been linked to prejudice from gay men against guys showing any form of femininity.

I just find it interesting how guys (gay, bi***ual or straight) can't go against the masculine stereotype without everyone labelling them a certain way (closeted, power bottom, 'pillow princess') or forcing them to 'come out'. Some of the comments here are very similar to what a lot of us experienced as teenagers from our straight peers. Ironically, this could just be Shawn being his true authentic self and instead of embracing it, we're trying to force him into a box that I'm sure we've all been forced into ourselves.

I wasn't trying to start a massive debate or cause offense, I actually just find it interesting. 

Also for the people calling me a 'woke' Gen Z...I'm 27. None of this is even new information, it dates back decades.

This entire comment just resonated a lot with me. Thank you

[Korb]

You can always count on Style to act a mess in any given topic 

I am cackling

[CHAOTIC STYLE.]

15 minutes ago, bitbitboi said:

@Style. calm down omg 

The way you told me to act it up as if I am one of your power bottoms! 

 

11 minutes ago, Korb said:

You can always count on Style to act a mess in any given topic 

I am cackling

Couple wet wipes case a bum tried to touch me, ew 

[bitbitboi]

55 minutes ago, Style. said:

The way you told me to act it up as if I am one of your power bottoms! 

If we ever hook up I would hose you down with freezing water so you chill 

...THEN we would ****.