i'm tired of being single. :(

[MortalMarshmallow]

Girl you just need to upgrade on your vibrations .

It all starts at home. Do some vibrational homework . 

[MikeHunt]

2 minutes ago, MortalMarshmallow said:

Girl you just need to upgrade on your vibrations .

It all starts at home. Do some vibrational homework . 

Im vibrating as we speak!

[ObsessedBritFan1]

6 minutes ago, MikeHunt said:

Im vibrating as we speak!

 

 

 

[Lucky☆]

20 minutes ago, princessmimi said:

Oh wow what a coincidence  im latina too.

Yeah I actually have.

I was in a relationship with a white guy for 2 years.

I've been out with an asian guy, a black guy and even a latino.

However I do have my type of guy but idk if i should say it cause someone might interpret it 

as racist.

Oh really? Well thats good.

The only thing is I've had VERY bad luck on dating apps/websites.

Alot of the men were pigs and just wanted to fk 

and one of the guys i went out with sxually harassed me by pulling at my bra strap on the date.

I just want to meet a decent man, idk why its so hard these days to find one

Hey que bien de donde eres ? Yo soy de Venezuela.

Sí hay que tener mucho cuidado , ya que lo que para nosotras es normal para la mayoría en estos días es ofensivo.

Oye que horrible tus experiencias  , yo tuve una así parecida y dejé de usar las apps por un tiempo ,ya después traté de cambiar más o menos el perfil del hombre que usualmente escogía y siento que mi suerte cambió.

Pase de hombre fanfarrones , bebedores y mayores que yo a hombres mas jóvenes ,más de estar en casa ,con estudios y con cosas más en común y siento que mi suerte cambió.

Otra cosa ,trataba de hacer mucha vídeo llamada y hablar bastante con ellos antes de salir para verle las caras y ver que vibras me daban y así poco a poco.

Senti que mis últimas 3 opciones fueron buenas ,más bien me sentí mal porque los chicos eran bien pero yo no sentía esa atracción, ya hasta que conocí a mi esposo hace como 2 años , todo fue evolucionando y me casé .

Mi esposo es blanco y de verdad que mejor no me ha podido ir ,no pierdas las esperanzas eh , yo no me casé en mi país y me casé aquí en Usa con el hombre de mis sueños ya casi a mis 30 , a veces la vida como que te hace esperar y esas relaciones quizás las tuvistes para darte una lección ,aprender y ver que tipo de hombre necesitas en tu vida.

[JoJo Online]

41 minutes ago, ObsessedBritFan1 said:

It's true, go on paid datings apps. Eharmony is great cause you have this questionnaire and you are paired with someone that you are compatible with. 

A lot of people are superficial, so just wait until you are in your 50s and you'll likely find more stable people who lead stable lives as well. It becomes less about looks and money, unless you are a hot mess at that age then your ducked. 

Thank you! 

[princessmimi]

3 hours ago, Lucky☆ said:

Hey que bien de donde eres ? Yo soy de Venezuela.

Sí hay que tener mucho cuidado , ya que lo que para nosotras es normal para la mayoría en estos días es ofensivo.

 

 

 

Pase de hombre fanfarrones , bebedores y mayores que yo a hombres mas jóvenes ,más de estar en casa ,con estudios y con cosas más en común y siento que mi suerte cambió.

Otra cosa ,trataba de hacer mucha vídeo llamada y hablar bastante con ellos antes de salir para verle las caras y ver que vibras me daban y así poco a poco.

Senti que mis últimas 3 opciones fueron buenas ,más bien me sentí mal porque los chicos eran bien pero yo no sentía esa atracción, ya hasta que conocí a mi esposo hace como 2 años , todo fue evolucionando y me casé .

Mi esposo es blanco y de verdad que mejor no me ha podido ir ,no pierdas las esperanzas eh , yo no me casé en mi país y me casé aquí en Usa con el hombre de mis sueños ya casi a mis 30 , a veces la vida como que te hace esperar y esas relaciones quizás las tuvistes para darte una lección ,aprender y ver que tipo de hombre necesitas en tu vida.

Yo estoy de los estados unidos.

Oh, sí, definitivamente debo tener cuidado porque el Internet puede ser peligroso.

Sí, fue horrible porque me trataron como una puta aunque no soy uno.

Incluso cuando cambié mi perfil, los hombres todavía me trataban así. Así que renuncio.

Eso es bueno,  Cómo crees que debería cambiar mi suerte con los hombres?

Oh, esa es una buena idea. Nunca hice eso antes. Eso probablemente me hubiera ahorrado mucho dolor de corazón

Es bueno que hayas podido casarte a pesar de todos los fracasos con otros hombres.

Realmente espero poder casarme.

Sabías que me comprometí hace unos años? Tenía 21 años, pero lamentablemente no funcionó porque mi ex no quería cambiar ni comprometerse.

Realmente espero que las cosas me salgan bien y seré feliz.

Supongo que sí. En 2 semanas, habrán pasado 5 años desde que terminó mi relación.

He tenido muchas citas e incluso salí con un chico por un tiempo, pero nada ha funcionado.

Cumpliré 30 en 2 años y siento que ya debería haberme casado.

No lo entiendo, no soy feo ni muy gordo.

Simplemente no entiendo por qué tengo tan mala suerte.

Solo espero encontrar a esa persona especial y casarme con ellos y ser feliz.

Gracias por tus amables palabras, significa mucho

 

 

 

 

[do the thing]

i'm 20 and y'all just crushed my hopes of finding love 

mainly because I can't have s3x without being in couple or have a special bond with the person  I'm a romantic yeah  I don't believe in open relationships at all, actually I know quite a few couples in that configuration and spoiler alert: it didn't work 

I've dated two girls and it wasn't that great since I didn't love them. I enjoyed the s3x however 

 

I'm up to try to date a guy, I feel like I might be more "romantically" attracted to them, even though I'm more "s3xually" attracted to girls. yeah it's not the common combo for bi guys ikr  but sadly, I can't be out of the closet for the moment 

which makes my dating life a hot complex mess 

 

 

 

[Mattyj7883]

[ObsessedBritFan1]

1 hour ago, do the thing said:

i'm 20 and y'all just crushed my hopes of finding love 

mainly because I can't have s3x without being in couple or have a special bond with the person  I'm a romantic yeah  I don't believe in open relationships at all, actually I know quite a few couples in that configuration and spoiler alert: it didn't work 

I've dated two girls and it wasn't that great since I didn't love them. I enjoyed the s3x however 

 

I'm up to try to date a guy, I feel like I might be more "romantically" attracted to them, even though I'm more "s3xually" attracted to girls. yeah it's not the common combo for bi guys ikr  but sadly, I can't be out of the closet for the moment 

which makes my dating life a hot complex mess 

 

 

 

Honestly, once you develop a deep romantic connection with someone, the ***ual attraction and chemistry elevates because you develop a desire to express the depth of your feelings that can’t always be conveyed through sheer communication or mental rapport. It’s like a heightened level of pleasure and visceral experience. Lust eventually fades and what’s left is disgust or shame. Count yourself lucky!
 

Some men are also very much in touch with their feminine side, almost as nurturing and tender as some women. The best part is, men can also get primal, which adds a different element of eroticism to the ***ual experience. Best of both worlds imo!

[breathe_on_me_toxic]

same

[BUWYGF]

12 hours ago, Jordan Miller said:

Then 

I mean I'll be your bf for free

[BUWYGF]

A relationship? With another gay man?  Not gonna happen, at least not a healthy one. As a group, we're completely doomed because our priorities are all wrong and we have childhood issues we never worked on and arent even aware of.

Not to mention just how much gays lie, I don't believe a single thing a gay man tells me - guilty until proven innocent tbh. 
 

Whenever I treated a gay man like trash he was nice to me, the moment I'd start treating him kindly he would become the worst person ever. 90% of gay men are incapable of staying faithful in a relationship. They went as far as to claim that "monogamy is heteronormative and not something that belongs to gays." This is the extent to how much cheating is being normalized in our group.

Pretty soon you'll be laughed at for even complaining you were cheated on by your bf, and it's a decade long effort by a lot of gays to reach this point.

Basically, gay men treat other gay men the way straight men treat women. That's the entire explanation. You're better off alone, get used to loving yourself and being alone with yourself, it's like meditation

[Spicechinodiva]

Golden Rule, it happens when you least expect it, don't look for it. It finds you..

 

Sometimes moving actually helps, the guy/girl that might like you, probably isn't where you live. So sometimes moving actually helps..

 

Everybody has always said, staying in your hometown or just one place for comfort isn't good, you need to challenge yourself and move, cos being in one place wasn't what the world or what we as humans were actually made of. 

[Britney671]

i just got out of a really bad relationship of 10 years. I wish i spent more of my early 20's doing things that i would consider fun. My ex was destructive at times and loving at times too. I really wish i listened to my friends and family earlier and ditched him. the cheating and the lies, the addiction, all things I overlooked. I wish I made myself a priority before him and his needs because I am a really giving person in general. Love make syou blind to all the negative sometimes. Now that I see people who suffer from that same abuse I feel really ashamed and relived at the same time.

I do hope you guys find someone.

TikTok and other social media platforms exacerbate the loneliness.You feel powerless and it's very defeatist.

I've found myself in a way better place alone. I have found myself and it is fantastic. Every now and then I feel lonely, and i think it is fine because i love my freedom now.

-end rant

Anyway, the point of this is you're feeling lonely and that valid. however, please do not feel like you are dependent on being loved by another person because you are a beautiful human being.

 

to be on topic, joining groups and social programs can help you find someone. being good looking speeds up the process. Much surprise?

be patient it will come. take your time finding a great partner. you are worth that extra.

 

 

[Mattyj7883]

 

[Gayseus911]

21 hours ago, 4EverIntoxicated said:

Relationships aren’t all they’re cracked up to be. They’re cool for the first 3 months and then it’s just bull****. Or at least that has been my experience. Too many rules and restrictions.

This! Totally agree! 

[CHAOTIC STYLE.]

On 7/28/2021 at 1:55 AM, Gayseus911 said:

Date me, I'm a top 

I can date you ‘cause I like to **** tops. We could be the weirdest gay couple ever! Plus, I need that visa. So... 

[JoJo Online]

5 hours ago, Britney671 said:

i just got out of a really bad relationship of 10 years. I wish i spent more of my early 20's doing things that i would consider fun. My ex was destructive at times and loving at times too. I really wish i listened to my friends and family earlier and ditched him. the cheating and the lies, the addiction, all things I overlooked. I wish I made myself a priority before him and his needs because I am a really giving person in general. Love make syou blind to all the negative sometimes. Now that I see people who suffer from that same abuse I feel really ashamed and relived at the same time.

I do hope you guys find someone.

TikTok and other social media platforms exacerbate the loneliness.You feel powerless and it's very defeatist.

I've found myself in a way better place alone. I have found myself and it is fantastic. Every now and then I feel lonely, and i think it is fine because i love my freedom now.

-end rant

Anyway, the point of this is you're feeling lonely and that valid. however, please do not feel like you are dependent on being loved by another person because you are a beautiful human being.

 

to be on topic, joining groups and social programs can help you find someone. being good looking speeds up the process. Much surprise?

be patient it will come. take your time finding a great partner. you are worth that extra.

 

 

Thank you 💗

[jordeezy river red]

I have been in my relationship for 10 years. It takes sacrifice but it's worth it. He is my bestie and we are both kinda codependent now but I think that's how love works. 

[dran]

I met my boyfriend on Jack'D, 2.5 years at this point. But to be honest, I always panicked and thought about how I was going to be single for the rest of my life, as I've gotten older, I'm starting to care less if we end up breaking up. It is what it is.

I enjoy my free time anyways LOL