i'm tired of being single. :(

[PokemonSpears]

13 minutes ago, Taschens said:

Just lower your expectations, that's it that's the secret 

is that why I've been single for the past 28 years?

[MARKUS]

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[Taschens]

1 minute ago, PokemonSpears said:

is that why I've been single for the past 28 years?

yes ma'am, you look kinda cute and I'm very SURE there are a lot of men willing to be with you, you just need to give someone a try. 

I lowered my impossible high standards and BAM suddenly I'm in a healthy 5 year lasting relationship, shocker!

[PokemonSpears]

Just now, Taschens said:

yes ma'am, you look kinda cute and I'm very SURE there are a lot of men willing to be with you, you just need to give someone a try. 

I lowered my impossible high standards and BAM suddenly I'm in a healthy 5 year lasting relationship, shocker!

I'm really not interested in that though

Tbh, I never felt the need to have a couple, so far I'm good, I can barely find time for myself, like, for all the things I want to do. And I DO think about the future, but I find it weird to find a couple now just not to be lonely when I'm older.  I don't wanna waste anyone's time 

My best friend tells me I'm weird, and that's not even the weirdest thing about me  

[JoJo Online]

16 minutes ago, MARKUS said:

Im in a relationship and I couldn't be more happy 

 
Self love ftw!

[SkyNet]

My last relationship finished about 3 years ago. I'm done with it. I'm not willing to let someone in just to use and abuse me.

I'm fine on my own, no bad surprise, all my time is mine.I'm not lonely but alone and happy.

I know the topic is about wanting relationship, but honestly I feel it should be secondary. Love and respect for yourself is more important. 

[JoJo Online]

Just now, SkyNet said:

My last relationship finished about 3 years ago. I'm done with it. I'm not willing to let someone in just to use and abuse me.

I'm fine on my own, no bad surprise, all my time is mine.I'm not lonely but alone and happy.

I know the topic is about wanting relationship, but honestly I feel it should be secondary. Love and respect for yourself is more important. 

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I’m still working on loving myself tbh. 

[MasterMindz]

1 minute ago, JoJo Online said:

I’m still working on loving myself tbh. 

I think this is very important. Before loving anyone, you should love yourself.

That being said, when I was younger, I used to always think that I will be single forever. But the tides have turned and I actually proposed to my partner and got engaged last weekend.. so always have hope!! 

[SkyNet]

1 minute ago, JoJo Online said:

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I’m still working on loving myself tbh. 

For me, it came after a few bad relationships. I felt head first and was left with an absolute bloodmess instead of a heart. Let's hope you'll find self-love less painful way. 💞 

[JoJo Online]

4 minutes ago, maki93 said:

I think this is very important. Before loving anyone, you should love yourself.

That being said, when I was younger, I used to always think that I will be single forever. But the tides have turned and I actually proposed to my partner and got engaged last weekend.. so always have hope!! 

Congrats and thank you! ❤️

[JoJo Online]

4 minutes ago, SkyNet said:

For me, it came after a few bad relationships. I felt head first and was left with an absolute bloodmess instead of a heart. Let's hope you'll find self-love less painful way. 💞 

I’m glad you were able to overcome it and I’m sorry you had to endure that. Thank you so much! ❤️

[SkyNet]

21 minutes ago, PokemonSpears said:

I'm really not interested in that though

Tbh, I never felt the need to have a couple, so far I'm good, I can barely find time for myself, like, for all the things I want to do. And I DO think about the future, but I find it weird to find a couple now just not to be lonely when I'm older.  I don't wanna waste anyone's time 

My best friend tells me I'm weird, and that's not even the weirdest thing about me  

100% in with you on that. 

[Taschens]

2 minutes ago, PokemonSpears said:

I'm really not interested in that though

Tbh, I never felt the need to have a couple, so far I'm good, I can barely find time for myself, like, for all the things I want to do. And I DO think about the future, but I find it weird to find a couple now just not to be lonely when I'm older.  I don't wanna waste anyone's time 

My best friend tells me I'm weird, and that's not even the weirdest thing about me  

Thats the thing about relationships, one shoe doesn't fit all and at the end of the day its your life   don't let them think otherwise  

 i'm sure that when older you'll have some yummy sugar babies 

 

[britbratt12]

Idk I been pretty much single my whole life 😆 adult life 

[princessmimi]

5 hours ago, Lucky☆ said:

What kind of man do you date ? Have you tried dating outside your race ? Or date younger guys? 

I'm latina and i never had luck with latino guys , I started dating other kind of guys (Asians,black ,whites) and I meet my beautiful husband through  bumble (dating app)

That app it is cool because women need to say hi first so you can choose who you want to talk to.

I think you need a subscription per month but I'm not sure anymore since I haven't used it in Years

Oh wow what a coincidence  im latina too.

Yeah I actually have.

I was in a relationship with a white guy for 2 years.

I've been out with an asian guy, a black guy and even a latino.

However I do have my type of guy but idk if i should say it cause someone might interpret it 

as racist.

Oh really? Well thats good.

The only thing is I've had VERY bad luck on dating apps/websites.

Alot of the men were pigs and just wanted to fk 

and one of the guys i went out with sxually harassed me by pulling at my bra strap on the date.

I just want to meet a decent man, idk why its so hard these days to find one

[Zeke]

Getting a man is easy. Getting him to love you and stay true to you... That's another story.

Loving someone else can be a great feeling, but learning to love yourself as a single woman/man can be as great.

 

It gets easier after 35, trust me. 

"If I can't have love, I want power" - Halsey 

[MikeHunt]

2 hours ago, Jordan Miller said:

Then 

You should get on Raya and get yourself a successful husband!

[ObsessedBritFan1]

It's true, go on paid datings apps. Eharmony is great cause you have this questionnaire and you are paired with someone that you are compatible with. 

A lot of people are superficial, so just wait until you are in your 50s and you'll likely find more stable people who lead stable lives as well. It becomes less about looks and money, unless you are a hot mess at that age then your ducked. 

[MikeHunt]

On 7/28/2021 at 1:34 PM, MARKUS said:

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[MARKUS]

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