'Bachelor' star Colton Underwood comes out as gay

[Spicechinodiva]

2 minutes ago, jordeezy said:

I'm just saying - I would respect him more if he came forward with partner and announced it that way.

He's single, he had to take a battle. 

 

Let him his fun, he just came out..

 

And in today's world is monogamy a thing in the gay world with open relationships and marriages. 

 

That's how gay relationships work successful today. 

[FemmeFataleBrit]

I know we don’t say things like this today but I always suspected he was. Honestly, I don’t think it’s offensive to assume as long as you don’t bombard him with questions about it like people do with Shawn Mendes.

[Look But Don't Touch]

1 minute ago, CrazyButItFeelsAllright said:

Yes 

I'm bi  Your gaydar sucks 

[jordeezy river red]

2 minutes ago, Intheblue said:

Its harder for many people to come out when they are single. I don’t get this comment. 

How so? I dont get that. I think actually showing that you have FALLEN in love with a man is the only way to prove you are a gay man. You can announce and thirst-trap all you want but that doesn't prove you are in, or will fall in, love with someone of the same gender. 

[MyAccountGotBanned]

4 minutes ago, jordeezy said:

How so? I dont get that. I think actually showing that you gave FALLEN in love with a man is the only way to prove you are a gay man. You can announce and thirst-trap all you want but that doesn't prove you are in, or will fall in, love with someone of the same gender. 

If you’re single, you don’t have the support of a loving partner. So yes I personally think coming out when you can hold on to the hand of someone who loves you for who you are makes it easier.

Also prove they’re gay? 

[RadicalOptimism]

3 minutes ago, Look But Don't Touch said:

I'm bi  Your gaydar sucks 

I guess I should’ve said I know when a man is attracted to another man 

[jordeezy river red]

Just now, Intheblue said:

If you’re single, you don’t have the support of a loving partner. So yes I personally think coming out when you can hold on to the hand of someone who loves you for who you are makes it easier when you know you made receive a negative reaction. 

Yeah - but announcing that you are gay while you are single - IDK. I think it's premature unless his intention is to let everyone know his DM's are open. IDK. If yall like it then go on ahead with it, but I think its opportunistic. 

[Spicechinodiva]

It's better than getting outed before you're not ready, but you have to pull the band aid off and do it when you're not ready to claim your truth..

[Spicechinodiva]

4 minutes ago, jordeezy said:

Yeah - but announcing that you are gay while you are single - IDK. I think it's premature unless his intention is to let everyone know his DM's are open. IDK. If yall like it then go on ahead with it, but I think its opportunistic. 

Grindr, I mean we live in an opportunistic society

[jordeezy river red]

3 minutes ago, Spicechinodiva said:

Grindr, I mean we live in an opportunistic society

But with this guy, the opportunism will come as potential job opportunities since he is a "celeb". It aint the same for us regulars.

[Spicechinodiva]

1 minute ago, jordeezy said:

But with this guy, the opportunism will come as potential job opportunities since he is a "celeb". It aint the same for us regulars.

Yeah, straight male privilege exists 

 

 

 

Many gays shown tik tok videos of getting denied jobs cos they're gay. 

[Jordan Miller]

Test

[Marcanthony]

1 hour ago, Jordan Miller said:

Ace comment 

I take it back.

Apparently he's a crazy psychopath who used to put tracker on his ex girlfriend and stalk her to the point that she got a restraining order against him.

 

[PZHSB]

Good for him. He’s a cutie. 

[NBT]

I read the name Colton Underwood and thought it was a gay pawnstar... cue my confusion when it said he was coming out as gay. Who am I thinking of? 

[Urbanney]

This is a sad story with a happy ending.

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Underwood said he went through a "dark and bad" time before feeling like he could reveal this about himself and his "wake up call" was feeling like he "would've rather died" than say he's gay.

When he was named the Bachelor, Underwood said he remembered "praying to God" the morning he found out and "thanking him for making me straight,' thinking this would lead to him finally getting the wife and them having kids.

Having grown up in the Catholic church, he remembered he "learned in the Bible that gay is a sin" in Catholic grade school. And during his time in sports, he remembered people using the word "gay" as a term that held "a connotation of negativity."

Another victim of religion. I'm glad he's finally getting to live his truth and be his authentic self.

[Hooked-On-Knee]

3 hours ago, Spicechinodiva said:

This explains his freak outs with the fantasy room, and to say growing up catholic I was taught to hate who I was. 

 

@Hooked-On-Knee hello even he said religion taught him to hate himself. 

I don't get if these are positive mentions or ones trying to drag me but like, all the actual Christian texts don't ever directly condemn *******uality. It's the unfortunate hatred that comes from people who spread misinterpreted verses without any knowledge of what they mean. 

[Urbanney]

2 hours ago, jordeezy said:

Why announce this, though? Oh, yeah! He wants that "influencer" role. 

Huh? Why is him telling the world who is considered to be opportunistic? With him going on a show focused on him dating women, it makes sense why he'd want people to know who he actually is and stop feeling like he's hiding it by putting it out in the world. 

I don't know understand why coming out without a partner is just thirst trapping in your opinion.

[Spicechinodiva]

1 hour ago, Damon said:

I read the name Colton Underwood and thought it was a gay pawnstar... cue my confusion when it said he was coming out as gay. Who am I thinking of? 

Drew dixxxon power bottom

[Spicechinodiva]

1 hour ago, Marcanthony said:

I take it back.

Apparently he's a crazy psychopath who used to put tracker on his ex girlfriend and stalk her to the point that she got a restraining order against him.

 

She removed it