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I had to secretly get a therapist to do an online session later today with me because of my depression and my abusive toxic mum. Mum this morning threw a hissy fit because I did not put on the TV for her to watch my sister's programme and even wants my sister to seize my laptop again as punishment forgetting that I am 29. I tried to defend myself but she abused the hell out of me and even said that my other sister in England trying to help me launch a writing career should go find someone else as I am incompetent and useless. I cried a lot yesterday and cried today. People will defend this woman because of her public facade but if only they knew what kind of person she truly is. She definitely does not want me to have a job and one of my uncles re-echoed her thoughts saying that my job is to take care of mum. Mum is going to be 70. She keeps lying about health problems that she brought upon herself. She lies against the staff especially the poor housegirl. I keep thinking of committing suicide because I can't live like this anymore. This woman and my older sister have been bullying me for years. I keep on taking **** because I don't know what to do. My boyfriend was banned from seeing me because in mum's words, "No one comes between me and my daughter." She even lied against one of my sister's staff claiming that the girl bullied me whereas she is the true bully. I told another one of my uncles but I doubt he did anything. I am basically trapped and afraid of everyone.

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On 2/9/2021 at 1:42 AM, BabyD01 said:

I had to secretly get a therapist to do an online session later today with me because of my depression and my abusive toxic mum. Mum this morning threw a hissy fit because I did not put on the TV for her to watch my sister's programme and even wants my sister to seize my laptop again as punishment forgetting that I am 29. I tried to defend myself but she abused the hell out of me and even said that my other sister in England trying to help me launch a writing career should go find someone else as I am incompetent and useless. I cried a lot yesterday and cried today. People will defend this woman because of her public facade but if only they knew what kind of person she truly is. She definitely does not want me to have a job and one of my uncles re-echoed her thoughts saying that my job is to take care of mum. Mum is going to be 70. She keeps lying about health problems that she brought upon herself. She lies against the staff especially the poor housegirl. I keep thinking of committing suicide because I can't live like this anymore. This woman and my older sister have been bullying me for years. I keep on taking **** because I don't know what to do. My boyfriend was banned from seeing me because in mum's words, "No one comes between me and my daughter." She even lied against one of my sister's staff claiming that the girl bullied me whereas she is the true bully. I told another one of my uncles but I doubt he did anything. I am basically trapped and afraid of everyone.

I wish I could give you a hug. You need to get out of that toxic situation ASAP. I mean, you're 29 years old. You should be able to live life for a change. Taking care of your mom is fine, but you need to put your foot down, and tell them you're getting a job. You need to have time away from all the gaslighting, bullying, and narcissism.

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Hi, i am late to this post, but i would like to get an update from you. Is the situation better? For what you describe, your mum is abusing you and even if she is your mum, that is not ok. The family we live in, that is the first lotery in our life, it is not your fault. Since she is almost 70 years old and you cannot provide for her, i would talk to social security services, so she gets moved to a facility. She needs special care. They may take her and take her monthly pension. You need to distance from her. Are you living in the UK?

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