Would you take your partner's surname if you got married?

[Look But Don't Touch]

2 hours ago, CrazyButItFeelsAllright said:

Hernandez is better than Rodriguez  lmao 

My cat's last name is Rodriguez for some reason, idk why I did it 

[CHAOTIC STYLE.]

16 hours ago, MissSpearsSaysSo said:

Yeah, I would. I think it’s sweet and romantic. But I can totally understand if someone wouldn’t want to. My guy and I are engaged and plan on getting married eventually. The name thing is something we’ve talked about a bit, it’s kinda funny and definitely a hetero thing, but I like it. 

so you’ve got your valentine, he better be a lion sis. we love a dom. 

[nwonder]

16 hours ago, Midnight said:

Yes, whatever makes my man happy  

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Midnight Wonder?

 

[ALBAVEASP]

If he has the M’s and the D’s, why not? 

[justin4britney]

I got married and no...too much of an inconvenience to change everything...

[Midnight]

2 hours ago, nwonder said:

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Midnight Wonder?

 

 

YES I accept, I do I do I do 

[MortalMarshmallow]

Only if it is a badass surname . A semi badass surname I could consider popping in as a middle name . Not that uncommon in my country . 

[ExXL]

No cuz I like mine , and it's not negotiable .... 

[MissSpearsSaysSo]

4 hours ago, Style. said:

so you’ve got your valentine, he better be a lion sis. we love a dom. 

He is!  

I’m gettin it Good.  

Those Trinidad men Serve It.  

[ObsessedBritFan1]

No .... first of all, I love my last name ... Samadi. And I would have worked hard to be called Dr. Samadi .... not unless my husband endured a rigorous doctorate program, he can pursue and earn his own title and degree.

[THE_MIKY]

On 1/16/2021 at 1:03 AM, Slayer said:

Would you take your partner's surname or would you keep your own if you got married?

I know it is considered the 'norm' in hetero***ual relationships, but what is your stance on the topic if you were to get married?

 

It is not just a hetero***ual thing. In Spain the woman does not change her surname, as we have two surnames (first the father and secondly mother's one)

In other countries where the woman is expected to change surnames, there is also the possibility to unify both surnames into one. It is just an option.

[Goten21]

No because I genuinely doubt there's a last name that I'd rather have than my own

[princessmimi]

Call me old fashioned but yeah I would.

There is just something so romantic and sweet about having your one true love's last name is like them really being yours, 

Also it kinda reminds me of a simpler time back when couples were faithful and classy; no messy breakups and stuff.

Sometimes I wish I was alive in the 40s/50s cause back then guys were romantic and not all about sx.

I want the relationship that my grandparents had; they were together for 57 years up until my grandpa passed away in 2017.

I just hope at least a 1/4 of that still exists somewhere 

[nwonder]

17 hours ago, Midnight said:

 

YES I accept, I do I do I do 

[Britneylandia]

No way lol. So dumb.

[Midnight]

3 hours ago, nwonder said:

I Midnight, promise to love you every single night for the rest of our lives.  

 

[RadicalOptimism]

12 hours ago, princessmimi said:

Call me old fashioned but yeah I would.

There is just something so romantic and sweet about having your one true love's last name is like them really being yours, 

Also it kinda reminds me of a simpler time back when couples were faithful and classy; no messy breakups and stuff.

Sometimes I wish I was alive in the 40s/50s cause back then guys were romantic and not all about sx.

I want the relationship that my grandparents had; they were together for 57 years up until my grandpa passed away in 2017.

I just hope at least a 1/4 of that still exists somewhere 

Sis my grandparents had 13 and 8 kids respectively. They were all about ***  also less divorce rates back then because women didn’t have basic rights and depended on their husbands more than women nowadays. I think there is always the potential for a long lasting, genuine relationship, but it’s not healthy to romanticize previous generations for that 

[Hooked-On-Knee]

On 1/16/2021 at 7:50 AM, CrazyButItFeelsAllright said:

it’ll be a tough call when the time comes about what name the kids will take 

You still voluntarily WANT children after meeting me and @Blackout2006?

Good luck.

[Martini]

Yes I'm going to take his for sure since I basically have two first names 

[breathe_on_me_toxic]

as I am aristocrat, no not really... . not downgrading. only with an other aristocrat...