Please keep Exhale a positive place

[Alestaos]

6 hours ago, CrazyButItFeelsAllright said:

She didn’t tell him that and he keeps bringing it up any chance he gets. I think it’s pretty disgusting to spread such blatant lies like that about somebody 

I did think it was weird since @Roxxy has been supportive in most posts i have seen of hers, but for him its obviously real and affecting him.

[Bigno]

16 hours ago, Haha-Hehe-Haha-Ho said:

No I got a rush from checking my notifications and wondering how people reacted. Now that I know for sure either someone loved, laughed or liked my comment then it’s kind of pointless to actually click on them. I rarely ever got downvotes 

Wait. Maybe we can start a random fight and I can quote you multiple times so you don't know what freaking insult I am using this time. Sounds like fun. Let's stimulate those neurotransmitters. 

[Swizzers]

On 12/9/2020 at 6:07 PM, Alestaos said:

Okay not to take away from your experience but, i posted some stuff about my mental health issues and life in general in @Roxxy's topics she did for that month (the song relation one) and she was really supportive, when she replied you could tell the comment had been thought about and not rushed.

@Roxxy was careful not to upset the topic but also respectful enough not to just throw a carpet comment over it. She never held it against me or others that also posted there struggles. It was a good time to know your not alone and supported!

Maybe if you feel that type of way then discuss it with @Roxxy or if you don't feel that it will be taken seriously have either people like @Jordan Miller or @Slayer mediate between both of you.  For example in a group DM that the moderator lets both sides voice there issues and then you can reach a conclusion.

Alot of the times its just miscommunication!

I know how people can feel that there illnesses is used against them when there so open about it, so even if you feel there's another time in the future that something like this happens DM me and we can talk it through. Just know that support is there for you (from one sufferer to another <3)

- Alestaos

Well not for nothing but Roxxy gets pissed off real fast and even when you throw facts at her, she gets super defensive. She hates being wrong. She will get nasty with you and will make it a goal to make you look like the bad guy and her the victim. And I'm sure if you DM her she will get even more vicious. If that's how she acts publicly on a forum, imagine how she is in a DM! 

Even if the guy kept bringing up his bipolar... Point is she had absolutely no right to tell him to go die. Shame on her! It could get annoying, sure, but to say that? Is she for real? What happened to just saying, "Can you please stop bringing it up?" 

She clearly has issues. How is someone who's that unstable allowed to be a mod???? That's like letting an arsonist become a firefighter!! Does it make any sense??? Screw her. 

[RadicalOptimism]

35 minutes ago, Swizzers said:

Well not for nothing but Roxxy gets pissed off real fast and even when you throw facts at her, she gets super defensive. She hates being wrong. She will get nasty with you and will make it a goal to make you look like the bad guy and her the victim. And I'm sure if you DM her she will get even more vicious. If that's how she acts publicly on a forum, imagine how she is in a DM! 

Even if the guy kept bringing up his bipolar... Point is she had absolutely no right to tell him to go die. Shame on her! It could get annoying, sure, but to say that? Is she for real? What happened to just saying, "Can you please stop bringing it up?" 

She clearly has issues. How is someone who's that unstable allowed to be a mod???? That's like letting an arsonist become a firefighter!! Does it make any sense??? Screw her. 

Enough. Your obsession with @Roxxy and slandering her name is getting old 

[whatwhatwhat]

me logging onto breatheheavy for the first time in two months and being tagged in a post being told to behave 

[Cheshire-B]

While I don't know how I feel about being told to be kind because I feel like I'm neutral most of the time I think it's a nice idea to open the discussion about how the members feel in the forum/BH community. I think everyone should be heard about that matter and this topic could be a way of doing that. 

As for myself, sometimes I loose it and can answer some things in a mean way but in these situations I mostly feel like I'm being pushed to my edges by some answers. There was time I wrote very long answers and then read myself and then delete my answer because I see that it's too much or that I'm taking it too personnal. 
Also I don't like the downvote button, I feel like it's very mean (even if I pushed it myself sometimes) and while thinking about it, it's weird to have a downvote button and/or telling people to go look somewhere else if they don't like a thread. 

The most important thing to remember imo is that internet is also real life, there's real people reading your answers and real people reading your words and also there's real people that can be hurt or don't understand what you meant. It's the internet but it's real words. And as in the real world, we can get angry, upset, mad,... but it doesn't mean we hate each other. As in real life these feelings come up because we don't understand each other and/or don't really listen or don't really try to uderstand what the others are trying to tell. 

We can't being forced to smile and feel good or act like it if we doesn't feel good, but we can read our post a second time before posting and asking ourselves if we're not going to far by saying some things, or try to think again about the situation/message that hurts us at this moment. 

This place like any other will never be a perfect happiness heaven, but we can think about what's going on and what's making us so angry sometimes (without pointing a finger at one another) 

[Britneyarmy8]

Now I barely comment on this forum compared to how much I used to but who would like to fill me in on the exhale drama 

come awn now 

@Blackout2006 old friend hiiiii!!!!!

also who tf took away my ability to downvote hmmm 

[Blackout2006]

2 hours ago, Britneyarmy8 said:

Now I barely comment on this forum compared to how much I used to but who would like to fill me in on the exhale drama 

 

I have a specialist degree and 5 years experience in drama and tea. Where’s the registration form?

2 hours ago, Britneyarmy8 said:

also who tf took away my ability to downvote hmmm 

Jordan miller removed the downvoted since he wants to convert us into sweet, pure and innocent cupcakes 

[Britneyarmy8]

20 hours ago, Blackout2006 said:

I have a specialist degree and 5 years experience in drama and tea. Where’s the registration form?

Jordan miller removed the downvoted since he wants to convert us into sweet, pure and innocent cupcakes 

Exhale messy as always 

looks like I didn’t miss anything 

[redacted statement]

9 minutes ago, Britneyarmy8 said:

Exhale messy as always 

looks like I didn’t miss anything

@Jordan Miller's vision for Exhell in 2021. 

[DollyParton]

I just realized today the ‘thumb down’ dislike button is gone.   Im sooo late

[Jordan Miller]

On 1/13/2021 at 9:45 PM, AreYouReady said:

I just realized today the ‘thumb down’ dislike button is gone.   Im sooo late

Yea haha. Now that we've had a few weeks without it, everyone feeling alright?