Do you sometimes feel like a flop fan to Britney?

[Micce_InBut Black Out]

I do

I am feeling like as a person I don't live up to Britney

i can't protect myself from bullies.

i am 28 and still jobless

i suck

[Hooked-On-Knee]

You're still a great person. .

[Urbanney]

It's never too late to change things!

I mostly don't feel like a flop fan to Britney, but I do when I remember that I didn't buy BJ or Glory. I don't regret not buying BJ tbh, but Glory is literally my favorite Britney album

I have mixed feelings about buying it now though. I don't want to support her conservatorship or family, who I'm sure are trying to squeeze every dollar out while she's not working. I also am trying to get a job, so buying a millionaire's 4 year old album, which I've already streamed hundreds of times, is not exactly my priority.  

[Stannedforever]

 awww these sound more like personal problems than being "flop fan". You don't have to live up to anyone else, it's your life and your prerogatives. 

 Also I feel you about bullies, I've been bullied a lot when I was in school and later in my life in my firsr workplace when I was the youngest and didn't fit with the other workers and they would constantly trash me and didn't invite me in their events and so on. I don't know your situation but I managed to exclude these toxic persons from my life eventually by not giving a **** what they said or thought about me.  

 Remember that even godney herself hit rock bottom in 2005-2008 and she probably felt similar to you, like she "sucked" because whole world was suddenly against her, but she survived. You're definetely not a flop fan if you support Britney as a person and #FREEBRITNEY in any way. 

 

 Hope you feel better soon, if not, maybe you could talk to someone? It's okay to seek help if you don't feel that good mentally. 

[Micce_InBut Black Out]

1 minute ago, Stannedforever said:

 awww these sound more like personal problems than being "flop fan". You don't have to live up to anyone else, it's your life and your prerogatives. 

 Also I feel you about bullies, I've been bullied a lot when I was in school and later in my life in my firsr workplace when I was the youngest and didn't fit with the other workers and they would constantly trash me and didn't invite me in their events and so on. I don't know your situation but I managed to exclude these toxic persons from my life eventually by not giving a **** what they said or thought about me.  

 Remember that even godney herself hit rock bottom in 2005-2008 and she probably felt similar to you, like she "sucked" because whole world was suddenly against her, but she survived. You're definetely not a flop fan if you support Britney as a person and #FREEBRITNEY in any way. 

 

 Hope you feel better soon, if not, maybe you could talk to someone? It's okay to seek help if you don't feel that good mentally. 

yesterday was my mother's birthday and it ended a mere hour-fresh day after when i did my best to accuse her for being a flop mother

she is deceased by now long gone and my mom and grandmother had sweet times with me till i was 12 and then i fell to orphanage where i felt people were very rude to me

then this day at night (the mom's birthday at 30th of october) and the turned day i was like : "it is my mom's and grandma's fault they didn't give me tools to freaking protect me from other people [in the orphanage to begin with rude people] and therefore they failed and i failed

and then i got reminder i have disability pension and don't have a job also

[Micce_InBut Black Out]

32 minutes ago, Hooked-On-Knee said:

You're still a great person. .

hey, thanks, high five  

[Stannedforever]

6 minutes ago, QZeusLiquorQ said:

yesterday was my mother's birthday and it ended a mere hour-fresh day after when i did my best to accuse her for being a flop mother

she is deceased by now long gone and my mom and grandmother had sweet times with me till i was 12 and then i fell to orphanage where i felt people were very rude to me

then this day at night (the mom's birthday at 30th of october) and the turned day i was like : "it is my mom's and grandma's fault they didn't give me tools to freaking protect me from other people [in the orphanage to begin with rude people] and therefore they failed and i failed

and then i got reminder i have disability pension and don't have a job also

 Your situation sounds quite tragic, but you have to remember that it's never your fault that you get bullied. Bullies are people who want to degrade someone to feel better about themselves. 

And NEVER think that it's your fault to have disability or any health problems. You matter as much as every single person in this world, no matter if you are jobless or homeless, we are all here together and we have the same destiny 

You sound like you want to tell your story to someone fully. Have you tried therapy? I have and I promise it can help a lot

[Micce_InBut Black Out]

1 minute ago, Stannedforever said:

 Your situation sounds quite tragic, but you have to remember that it's never your fault that you get bullied. Bullies are people who want to degrade someone to feel better about themselves. 

And NEVER think that it's your fault to have disability or any health problems. You matter as much as every single person in this world, no matter if you are jobless or homeless, we are all here together and we have the same destiny 

You sound like you want to tell your story to someone fully. Have you tried therapy? I have and I promise it can help a lot

Yes, it sounds true about bullies.

yes, we do have the destiny to always listen to Britney

i should take note of you, i should process bullies in my life more carefully and in a way that is productive to me

well i don't know if i want or want not to tell my story. rght now i don't even feel the need of telling it fully, however i like to complain about my incompatibilities and weaknesses i think a human should be strong, but i am not. and as i am typing it hey those muscleless hands and body.

i actually have a psychologist now. sometimes we discuss things, the thing is that i don't want to discuss it with him, as we have the slogan: all people are good. if i complain too much i must be making things up. you know this case of green like this psychologists?

well for one i don't even complain about the bullies. i feel like i am weak not standing up

[Mxra]

The first time i ever stood up to bullies i was thinking of Britney and her music. 

I hope she knows about how much she has probably helped each and every one of us. 

[nwonder]

58 minutes ago, QZeusLiquorQ said:

I do

I am feeling like as a person I don't live up to Britney

i can't protect myself from bullies.

i am 28 and still jobless

i suck

Sending you love

You’re probably much stronger and amazing than you actually realise 

[Stannedforever]

17 minutes ago, QZeusLiquorQ said:

however i like to complain about my incompatibilities and weaknesses i think a human should be strong, but i am not. 

 It's okay to be "weak" or sensitive or sad or break down. Movies and books always portray people being some kind of superhumans that are strong and independent and blah blah but according to multiple studies, over 70% of the people feel insecurity and other negative emotions about themselves daily. You're not living your life to show other people how strong you are or can be, you're supposed to be the best version of you for yourself. And a best way to be the best version of you is to forgive and forget your past because it can't be changed, but you can change your future even if it happened with baby steps. You should start with being honest and open with your psychologist even if it felt like "complaining", he probably hears way worse daily.

 

The second baby step is to stream brave new girl for clear skin 

[Micce_InBut Black Out]

6 minutes ago, nwonder said:

Sending you love

You’re probably much stronger and amazing than you actually realise 

yes you sound truthful

after all one thing is that i love to complain

i am a person who loves that ****. to be overnegative and get high off it

[Micce_InBut Black Out]

2 minutes ago, Stannedforever said:

 It's okay to be "weak" or sensitive or sad or break down. Movies and books always portray people being some kind of superhumans that are strong and independent and blah blah but according to multiple studies, over 70% of the people feel insecurity and other negative emotions about themselves daily. You're not living your life to show other people how strong you are or can be, you're supposed to be the best version of you for yourself. And a best way to be the best version of you is to forgive and forget your past because it can't be changed, but you can change your future even if it happened with baby steps. You should start with being honest and open with your psychologist even if it felt like "complaining", he probably hears way worse daily.

 

The second baby step is to stream brave new girl for clear skin 

thanks i needed that

[Roxxy]

Being weak or cowardly doesn't make you a flop fan. You can still rise up from this and become strong. Not for Britney, but for yourself, for your family, and everyone who believes in you and loves you. Do it for them.

As for me... the answer is No. I don't feel like a flop fan because I know I did way more than stream and admire her greatness, send her love and positivity, and respect and love her music. I bought all her sh1t, and i'll be honest - I do judge people who call themselves a "stan" while not owning more than half of her discography. I think they should call themselves a "casual fan" but not a fan or a stan. You can't tell me  that someone who only owns all her post-breakdown albums and not a single Primeney album is on the same level as I who bought all her CDs, DVDs and perfumes, and Funko? No, I refuse to stand alongside such so-called 'fans'. 

But I have one BIG flop secret and i've talked about it many times in this forum and that is I have never seen Britney Spears live and I had three chances and I passed on all of them. Had I known we'd be in this situation, I would've gone to see her in 2017.

[OutofKontrol]

YES AND NO.

 

Ive been supporting Brit since 99. I always go hard for her, and will continue too. However, I do feel like a total flop because I was in support for the cship in the beginning and largely up until last year. When all of that information leaked I started to do so much research and I just couldn't believe how ignorant I was when it came to Cships. I honestly felt disgusted with myself for supporting something like this. What made me even more disgusted with myself, was how sad Britney must of been to know that her fans were in support of her rights being taken away like this. Ig thats why I go so hard for her to gain her freedom back....a lot of it is guilt but also because its the right thing to do. I feel like I gotta support her more so NOW than ever before.....and I will. 

[Britneyarmy8]

3 hours ago, QZeusLiquorQ said:

yesterday was my mother's birthday and it ended a mere hour-fresh day after when i did my best to accuse her for being a flop mother

she is deceased by now long gone and my mom and grandmother had sweet times with me till i was 12 and then i fell to orphanage where i felt people were very rude to me

then this day at night (the mom's birthday at 30th of october) and the turned day i was like : "it is my mom's and grandma's fault they didn't give me tools to freaking protect me from other people [in the orphanage to begin with rude people] and therefore they failed and i failed

and then i got reminder i have disability pension and don't have a job also

do u realize how strong u are? how many more battles u had to face in life compared to an average person, that too at such a young age, and so for u to go through all of that and presume urself to be weak or "have failed" is absurd, you are so so so strong and im sure more than half the people here cant have imagined to go through what u have, yet here u are, still here, sharing ur fun threads, being a kind person, surviving

u matter so much, and so forget about what they have done to you, even i try to think at times all the wrong some people have done in my lives, but then i realize there is no point,

ur only 28, ur young, u have a lot to live for, so take risks, have fun, and try to remain positive

sending love 

[girl_bye]

i think ur fine the way u are

plus i like ur posts thyre always funny

[Karmickiss]

Pressure makes diamonds ❤️ that’s you.

 

ps your posts crack me up so thank you

[Micce_InBut Black Out]

All i wanna say thank you guys. Exhale, even if sometimes negative, is still one of the most positive communities on the interweb

and we all have contributed a lot for that to happen

lately especially this year coming back here i have felt such a positive vibe here

i am more and more supportive of this forum

i must say sometimes i am critical but i come here only because this place lights up my heart

thank u guys

[Micce_InBut Black Out]

even if sometimes i don't understand everything that goes on on here most of the time lately i am more amazed by how spirited and naturally good wiling the people are on here

this place has sometimes been so dark tho 

i guess i can say it

i have been a member from 2012-2018 and now 2020- to infinity :D