Trigger warning: might cAuse flashback in highschool gym class for a lot of us.

[Spicechinodiva]

The accuracy is real, really scary accurate. 

 

My statement is valid. I truly can't relate to a man, relate to more girls I'm the girl's gAy. Not the manly gay at all. 

 

 

[SloppyToppyGoddess]

You asserting toxic masculinity in the gay community is all I'm getting from this. So I'm not a "man" unless I like beer, cars and sports? 

I get you're older than most of us here and grew up in a generation that imposed this mindset on you, but not saying times have completely erased this notion, but times have changed. I think you should follow more progressive LGBTQ+ accounts. Gender roles and stereotypes are being challenged. 

The meme was funny, but it's your explanation of the meme that is concerning. 

[Spicechinodiva]

9 minutes ago, Neneleaks said:

You asserting toxic masculinity in the gay community is all I'm getting from this. So I'm not a "man" unless I like beer, cars and sports? 

I get you're older than most of us here and grew up in a generation that imposed this mindset on you, but not saying times have completely erased this notion, but times have changed. I think you should follow more progressive LGBTQ+ accounts. Gender roles and stereotypes are being challenged. 

The meme was funny, but it's your explanation of the meme that is concerning. 

**** off I hate straight men they are not needed, we don't need them 

[SloppyToppyGoddess]

27 minutes ago, Spicechinodiva said:

**** off I hate straight men they are not needed, we don't need them 

Please don't cuss at me. I'm just giving you insight to a generational issue within the gay community. Also vilifying all straight men is as ignorant as racists who hate certain races or bigots who hate all gays. Rise above that hate! 

[Spicechinodiva]

8 minutes ago, Neneleaks said:

Please don't cuss at me. I'm just giving you insight to a generational issue within the gay community. Also vilifying all straight men is as ignorant as racists who hate certain racists or bigots who hate all gays. Rise above that hate! 

I can't, research velvet rage. 

 

It's with me for life. 

[SloppyToppyGoddess]

20 minutes ago, Spicechinodiva said:

I can't, research velvet rage. 

 

It's with me for life. 

Thanks for the recommendation. I'll definitely give it a read. We can't move forward in the right direction without learning from the past. It's hard growing up gay but the more we come to together as a community and educate others, we can make change for the better. 

[RadicalOptimism]

30 minutes ago, Spicechinodiva said:

**** off I hate straight men they are not needed, we don't need them 

Singling out a group of people that are in our community here on Exhale is wrong. @Blackout2006 is a straight male among others and this is a disgusting comment. I advise you take your warning points and reflect not to single out groups of people like that on here again. Others and myself will not tolerate that 

[Blackout2006]

On 9/14/2020 at 5:25 AM, Spicechinodiva said:

 straight men they are not needed, we don't need them 

but i am straight toooo  

[SumoCyco2017]

3 hours ago, Neneleaks said:

You asserting toxic masculinity in the gay community is all I'm getting from this. So I'm not a "man" unless I like beer, cars and sports? 

I get you're older than most of us here and grew up in a generation that imposed this mindset on you, but not saying times have completely erased this notion, but times have changed. I think you should follow more progressive LGBTQ+ accounts. Gender roles and stereotypes are being challenged. 

The meme was funny, but it's your explanation of the meme that is concerning. 

Or stop being a lil betch and stop being offended that ur a limp wrist gay instead of a masc gay that can grab straight acting gays and be in public on a date with them and not get thw weird looks because they can see ur gay just by looking at u? Or hearing u and not needing to hear u say a word at all? U choose to be the stereo type...so own it and stop telling other gays how to make fun of their own kind...byeeeeee

[CaulkDestroyer]

3 hours ago, SumoCyco2017 said:

Or stop being a lil betch and stop being offended that ur a limp wrist gay instead of a masc gay that can grab straight acting gays and be in public on a date with them and not get thw weird looks because they can see ur gay just by looking at u? Or hearing u and not needing to hear u say a word at all? U choose to be the stereo type...so own it and stop telling other gays how to make fun of their own kind...byeeeeee

Your education has failed you. You are not able to comprehend the analysis he conveyed on this subject. You do not get the point like others have. He is telling the OP to NOT be a stereotype and to not tell other gays how they should be be. Honestly I've given your posts the benefit of the doubt, but you are dense as they come. Your opinions have no merit. So here try this, it will give you at least a boost of academic integrity to your grammatical structure since your thought can't do it for you. 

[Korb]

Honey, Spicechinodiva said "Heterosexuals? Not on watch!"

[ColdAsFire88]

I like balls