Versatile people call strictly tops and bottoms selfish

[Spicechinodiva]

I do have a few friends let's say they are retired now.

 

Derrick Hanson and one French film star who started his career in his 30s. Fred fautin. 

 

All have come out and said. They are proud versatile and In Fred case. He  loves pounding the bottom with his fist. Which has been proven if done wrong has serious damage to that area that is permanent. 

 

When you hear someone said. I'm proud I made his first rose bud. 

Don't google. The fisting rose bud looks like what it means the flower itself in red. 

 

I'm not prudish but some thing's are just off limits. That has to be more painful than a 11" or 12".

But Derrick hansen has come out and said people who are strictly defined as either top or bottom are the most selfish.  The happier gay men being satisfied are the versatile ones..cos you get some and I get some. The best of both worlds..