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Was Britney Ever After Right In A Way ?


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I came to conclusion where I think something was missing in 2002-2004 period. She was huge , most of the people would die to be in her place. But she quit everything she worked hard for just to get married and have kids and stay away from us.

And I remember the part in Britney Ever After movie when the interviewer said there are tons of fans who loves her.And her face got all , " yeah..." I'm gratefull for my fans but I want someone to love me not because I'm Britney Spears but gonna love me for being Britney Jean.

Do you guys think that she can't be a happy person without a man's love? I mean it's clear that our love wasn't enough for her  and she quit every aspect of her life we seen and fall in love with , just to be with Kevin.

I mean , paparazzi wouldn't bother her  if we wouldn't pay attention to her paparazzi shots. Do you guys think she was indirectly escaping from us , fans , when she was escaping from the media ?

What do you guys think?  

 

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2 minutes ago, danny1994 said:

Well she never quit, the knee injury sidelined her and she was still working on new music. She just took a break from touring, I’m sure that if she didn’t have a breakdown she would’ve toured in 2008.

I doN't remember which interview but she said all of her plan was to get enough money to buy her mom a house and turn back to lousiana. I mean , I doN't get most of her plans. She say this and next thing you know she 's jumping trees in Vegas :meltdown:

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Everyone has hopes and goals in life. Hers is to have a family but her problem is she makes poor decisions to reach her goals. 

Sometimes those goals aren't pieces of your life puzzle and you sort have to accept it. You can't force love which is what most ppl do because they are lonely. 

Which is why my favorite statement is love yourself first and the rest will fall into place. 

 

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Call me crazy but even during Britney's prime I felt like she didn't want to have the fame and such a high profile career throughout her entire life. You have to consider that she's the type of person that gets real home-sick and wants a more structured routine and quiet life after a while. She's been on a stage all of her life performing at county fairs, going on auditions, appearing on TV, and etc and this was well before the MMC days. 

Britney's going to be 36 tomorrow, back during 2002-2004 you had a woman who already made all of her biggest dreams a reality and all of her peers were in relationships especially the one who understood her the most who happened to be her ex (Timberlake). I'm sure Britney's line of thinking was "what about me?" Christina had someone, Justin had someone, Pink had someone, Beyonce had someone. Who did Britney have - a bunch of fück boys? Sadly that still looks like her reality today

Success of any kind doesn't mean much if you have nobody to share it with and as mostly gay men here having to navigate this whole new world of dating opportunities through apps and websites we know all too well what kind of nightmare it is. Imagine being insanely rich on top of it. I'd give anything to give her a hug and tell her that she's loved and valued without a beefcake next to her. She could weigh 400 pounds and still be an angel on Earth. But Britney has to realize that for herself.

Also, I'm sure she was very burnt out at the time:  she was touring, recording, shooting music videos, doing photoshoots, rehearsing and promoting from late 1998-2004 almost non-stop. While the rest of the world goes home at the of their work day she's going to a hotel in a different city surrounded by people she doesn't know, no friends there, no family. Can't just decide "hey I wanna go to my favorite restaurant" or decide to call bestie for drinks later.

I'm not saying that Britney wants or needs a pity party but you have to understand the pressure she was under and not only that but the societal pressure that everyone is judged by i.e. settling down with a husband and kids. She may have been on top of the world but I'm sure all she's ever wanted was just to be a good mom to a bunch of kids and everything else would come second.

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2 hours ago, riccus said:

I doN't remember which interview but she said all of her plan was to get enough money to buy her mom a house and turn back to lousiana. I mean , I doN't get most of her plans. She say this and next thing you know she 's jumping trees in Vegas :meltdown:

She has a lot of money sure, but now her as well as the people in her life are used to a lifestyle that would be hard to keep up if she'd stopped being active. Yes, she can be frugal shopping at Targets and such but she is still too young to retire, especially with child support to pay, the c-ship, etc. Even her perfumes would probably stop selling as well if she was to disappear completely from the public eye

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2 hours ago, riccus said:

I doN't remember which interview but she said all of her plan was to get enough money to buy her mom a house and turn back to lousiana. I mean , I doN't get most of her plans. She say this and next thing you know she 's jumping trees in Vegas :meltdown:

That was her plan when she first started as a teenager. She didn't expect to become the icon she is today. Nothing weird or with that... :brit:

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Of course her fans' love for her isn't enough ... To her, it's not a real thing. She obviously knows we're people, just like her... but she (like any celebrity) sees us as a collective, not as individuals ... and you can't get satisfied by a group of total strangers loving the image you put out there from afar... To be honest, she's just being real.. I'm sure she appreciates everything her fans have done for her, but there's a limit as to how much you could really feel for people you don't know... And tbh, every artist who says "my fans' love fills me with joy and gets me going and out of bed every morning" is completely bullshitting .... Think about it, if you were famous - would you really CARE about these people? U wouldn't sit there and call them and talk to them every night, wondering how they're doing .. you don't have the time to call millions of people.

Just look at any youtuber - when they say "How was your day?" or "I really wanna hear you guys' input..." they don't give a ****... they want a comment because more comments = more exposure = more fans etc. It's nothing bad - it's just how the world works. And to expect anything more from a complete stranger, especially if they're as huge a star as Britney is, is completely nuts..

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I think she's lonely and wants to experience her life with someone but until she truly loves herself and not just gets infatuated with any random guy who can follow her around she's going to continue to have problems. Insecurity and loneliness lead her to cheat on Justin, lead her to throw herself into a Vegas marriage,  then another quick marriage with Kevin.... add onto that years of daddy control issues and she's got a recipe for unhealthy disaster type relationships meanwhile her peers have had long lasting normal relationships. 

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18 minutes ago, brit4u1998 said:

Put on your tin foiled hats, Britney wanted a man who loved her unconditionally. 

She had so many haters in 2002/2003. Maybe she felt insecure from all of the criticism from the haters, and the press. And she thought

that a man could shield her from all of that. 

i remember those days...

Any celebrity  today is giving the paing that they have to Britney those days.

 

Poor girl must've feel so insecure... 

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