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    • the worst part is that, I could understand they're worried (not really, but I could put a lot of effort in giving them a pass), but what is absolutely the most insane and absurd thing in the world is that the basis for their worry is some instagram posts. As if 30 seconds of footage could give us an accurate picture of anything. As if having a "normal instagram" back then was a sign that everything was alright within the conservatorship. Then when she stops posting for a few days, then she's being isolated, she's depressed, she's having an episode, when it turns out she was just on vacation with a hot guy. It's the assumption of millions of things based on literally nothing what really pisses me off.
    • Britney is a survivor of human trafficking. Call it a conservatorship if you want but it is what it is.  Very very few people will ever comprehend what enduring that does to a human or the emotional and mental trauma that comes with it.  It's not something you just get over. It stays with you.  The betrayal, the anger, the disgust, the shame, the isolation, the ptsd.  She's shown very little empathy or understanding by the public or even her fans who expect her to just snap out of it and be who she was prior to the abuse. It's actually disgusting seeing so much judgement thrown on this woman who is learning how to cope with what has been done to her.  The very people who criticized the treatment she got from the media in the 2000s are now doing the same thing today but worse.  You wouldn't crap on a double leg amputee for taking their time learning to live without legs so why is it ok to criticize a human trafficking victim for learning to live with the abuse and trauma they have endured.  Peoples attitudes towards mental health are as disgusting as ever.  Everyone pretends to deeply care about mental health as long as the person with mental health issues are smiling happy shiny people but if the second they struggle society is ready to burn them at the stake.   
    • I fixed your headline: "A stylist who was an employee for a human trafficking ring says she doesn't recognize the person her employers enslaved for 13 years"  "I'm mad that a woman whose life was destroyed by human traffickers won't live her life for MEEEE"  As a survivor of trafficking myself **** all of you who pass judgment on Britney for "being different" yeah she's gone through something most people can't even comprehend.  Her going into a recording studio, going on stage, doing a music video or photoshoot will trigger her and make her relive her abuse because that's what they forced her to do for 13 years Yall want to relive her abuse just so she can be your little barbie doll and entertain you.  She's a human being. She's not going to dance for you anymore.   
    • I don't think we are necessarily worried. I think we are just sick of seeing it. Yes we can unfollow but we won't. It's like this weird addiction to. We love to hate it.  
    • Everyday I come on here I see a new thread where there are a bunch of fans “worried” about Britney and occasionally there are a few intelligent ones that know this just makes no sense. Why though? Why do so many fans keep insisting something is off? Let me just make one thing very clear now: We don’t know Britney. She’s not our friend. She is her own person and we don’t (and shouldn’t) have any control over her. If you feel something about her is out of your control: good! It shouldn’t be. It makes me sad to see so many people insisting that Britney owes them something, be it music, content or explanations. For 15 years she’s had an extremely public life and finally, she has her own privacy. Why do y’all want that to be taken away? Why are you scared of being left in the dark by someone you DON’T know? Leave her be. Whatever issues she may or may not have are HER issues. That’s not the point I’m trying to make tho - I genuinely wanna know why some people are constantly worried for her. A lot of so called “fans” say she’s troubled, that they don’t recognize her, that they feel sad about her etc., but I really wanna know WHY. Britney has shown us countless times in the past 3 years that she knows how to take care of herself as a free woman. She hasn’t put anyone or herself in danger. She has showcased her resilience multiple times in the past 20 years. Whatever she’s got going on, she can pass right through it. Y’all underestimate her strength and it shows. So what is it that makes everyone worried? Dancing videos??? Seriously? Out of all things you could possibly be worried about, you worry about her dancing at the comfort of her own home because it’s a hobby she’s had all her life and it makes her feel good… (fun fact: dancing has been scientifically proven to help battle depression ❤️). I really don’t get it. Everyone has hobbies and they can share them. I can’t think of any possible explanation for that other than y’all only wanting her to be free in case she chooses to do something to ENTERTAIN you. I won’t be unrealistic and say Britney is the happiest woman in the world currently - she’s not (NOBODY is always happy). She’s been VOCAL that she still struggles with anxiety and depression after the conservatorship. But guess what? MILLIONS of people struggle with that worldwide. They’re not alone. But it doesn’t mean these people can’t be happy and do good, and they don’t get their sanity or their well-being questioned every time they do something that makes them feel good. Britney isn’t perfect, she still struggles, but what matters is that she’s learning to LIVE with her struggles and not letting them control her life. She still does her own thing, she goes on vacations, she still has passion for the things she loves - she’s shown us she can still be happy even if she also has struggles she chooses not to share with us. If you want her to forget her trauma or whatever - be real and accept that it’s not gonna happen. Abuse victims never forget it, as I said before, they just learn not to let their trauma stop them from living. To sum it all up my last message is: If you weren’t worried for Britney while she was severely struggling during the cship with depression and anxiety ALL while not being free just cause she still did music, had a few stylists and kept your butts entertained, then don’t be worried or her now that she’s free, has less struggles than she used to while other people controlled her and can actually take control of her narrative and what she does with her struggles. 🌹
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